“Dealing with your STRESS is a separate process from dealing with the things that cause your stress. To deal with your STRESS, you have to COMPLETE THE CYCLE.”

Emily Nagoski, PhD/Amelia Nagoski, DMA

Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle

What we refer to as “Stress” can be broken down into three parts:

1. STRESSORS: the triggers that activate the stress response in your body. Triggers can be both external and internal. These stressors cause a stress response in our body. 

When we get triggered by a stressor, our 

CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM

tries to

CONTROL it

by going into

a STRESS RESPONSE:

• FIGHT

“The FIGHT response happens when you feel you're in danger, but you believe you can overpower the threat.“

• You cry

You may feel:

• irritated

“When you believe you can overcome the danger by running away, your brain prepares your body for FLIGHT.”

• Your legs are restless

You may feel:

• unsure

“When you feel neither running nor fighting is the best choice, you can freeze instead:”

• You feel cold

You may feel:

• shut down

“When you've tried fight, flight, or freeze several times without success, you may find yourself using the fawn response… your only hope of survival might be compliance and helpfulness… you are more concerned about making them (people who’ve triggered you) happy than about doing what's right for you.”

(“Fight, Flight, Freeze: How To Recognize It And What To Do When It Happens.”

Stephanie Kirby

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