Where I Meet You

Send us Fan Mail

Somewhere along the way I learned to wait. Not for anything specific, just in general. To wait my turn, for the right moment, wait until things settled down, wait until someone somewhere decided it was finally time for me.

What I didn't realize until recently was that this wasn't patience. It was a belief I had picked up somewhere and never questioned, that my time was somehow less valuable than the time of the people around me. That everyone else's needs, schedules, dreams, and urgencies belonged at the front of the line. And that mine would come eventually. Just not right now. Never quite right now.

In this episode I'm sitting with where that belief came from, how long it has been running quietly in the background of my life, and what it has cost me to keep waiting for a permission slip that was never coming.

Because here's what I've been learning, permission is not something anyone else can give you. Not your boss, not your partner, not your family, not the version of your life that finally looks the way you thought it was supposed to look. The waiting room doesn't have a door that someone else opens from the outside. You have to open it yourself, the hardest part is realizing that you always could have.

This episode is for anyone who has been sitting in that waiting room a little too long.

Send us Fan Mail

Sometimes the universe doesn't send you a sign. It sends you a TikTok algorithm and a wrapped book with no title on the cover.

I ordered a blind date with a book. a TikTok trend where someone wraps a book in paper and gives you just a few clues, no title, no author, and what arrived stopped me in my tracks. The Fifth Agreement and The Mastery of Love. Not random. Not coincidence. Right on time.

In this episode I'm talking about what it felt like to unwrap those books and immediately know they were meant to find me, and my commitment to reading them with you and sharing what I learn, what lands, what cracks something open. Because growth is better when it's not done alone.

I also talk about the second order still on its way, and the particular kind of excitement that comes with trusting something before you even know what it is. That feeling, the leaning in, the openness, the willingness to receive, might be the whole lesson right there.

TikTok Shop Link

https://www.tiktok.com/@blinddatewithyoursoul?_r=1&_t=ZT-984GloIerzJ

Send us Fan Mail

This episode is a return — to the very reason this podcast exists in the first place. Where I Meet You was never meant to be polished or perfect. It was meant to be a place where I meet myself, in grief, in growth, in all my layers, and tell the truth about what I find there.

So this one is me coming back to that. No big topic, no neat lesson — just an honest check-in on where I actually am right now: my feelings, my emotions, the current state of my life, said out loud instead of managed or smoothed over.

It's a reset. A recommitment to using this show the way it was always meant to be used — as a mirror, not a performance. A place to hold myself accountable to my own honesty, even when that's uncomfortable, even when there's no tidy takeaway at the end.

If you've ever needed permission to just say where you actually are instead of where you think you should be — this one's for you too.

Send us Fan Mail

There's a particular kind of hiding that doesn't look like hiding at all — it looks like skipping the photo, choosing the back row, letting your body take up less space in a room you have every right to fill. In this episode, I'm getting honest about the weight gain I've been navigating and the quiet way it's made me want to disappear.

It came into sharp focus on a recent trip to Arizona. Somewhere between the trip I'd been looking forward to and the camera I kept avoiding, I realized how much energy I was spending trying to be unseen — and how exhausting that has become.

This episode is me sitting with that discomfort instead of editing it out. We talk about where that urge to vanish really comes from, and how it slowly turns into something else: a meditation on what it actually means to be seen — by others, and by ourselves. Because being seen, at its core, is being loved. And before anyone else can offer us that, we have to be willing to look at ourselves first — all of it, the parts we're proud of and the parts we'd rather crop out — and meet ourselves there with love instead of judgment.

This one's a tender one. As always, one micro moment at a time.

In this episode:

• The vacation moment that cracked something open for me
• Why I've been avoiding the camera — and what that avoidance is really protecting
• The link between disappearing and not feeling worthy of being seen
• Reframing "being seen" as an act of love, starting with ourselves
• An invitation to look at yourself — fully — with more compassion

Send us Fan Mail

Choosing Yourself

What does it really mean to choose yourself—and why can it feel so uncomfortable when you do?

In this episode, we explore the quiet tension between who we’ve been expected to be and who we’re becoming. Choosing yourself isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it looks like setting a boundary no one else understands, outgrowing roles that once felt safe, or finally listening to the voice you’ve been ignoring.

This isn’t about perfection or having it all figured out. It’s about honesty, responsibility, and the willingness to stand in your own life—even when it changes things.

If you’ve been feeling the pull to choose differently, this is a space to sit with that.

You don’t have to rush the decision.
 But you do have to hear yourself.

Send us Fan Mail

Join me as I reflect a year later on being fired, how I coped, and how I ended up in that spot. Its always interesting when you get to look at events in your life through a different lens.  However so glad that last year is over and ready to look forward to new chapters in 2026! 

Send us Fan Mail

Its November 2024 and I was just fired from my job.  Felt like De Ja Vu all over again, how could this be happening again 5 years later?! 

I decided to record this while the feelings and emotions were still raw, I didn't really plan on releasing this as an actual episode it was more or less an outlet but, listening to it about a year later I decided that there was a message to share and I hope if you are going through a difficult time in your life right now this resonates with you. Stay tuned to find out how everything turns out. 

Send us Fan Mail

This is the beginning.

Where I Meet You is a podcast rooted in presence—meeting ourselves and one another exactly where we are, without rushing, fixing, or pretending we have it all figured out.

In this intro episode, I share why this space exists, what the name Where I Meet You truly means, and who this podcast is for. This isn’t about having answers or offering formulas for growth. It’s about slowing down, telling the truth, and creating room for the in-between seasons we so often move through quietly.

If you’re navigating change, sitting in uncertainty, or learning how to meet yourself with more honesty and compassion, this podcast was created with you in mind.

You don’t need to arrive here healed or whole.
 You just need to arrive as you are.

This is where we meet.