While We're Still Here

While We're Still Here

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While We're Still Here episodes

  • Meet Ruth! Our First Conversation of 2023

    Ruth is a dear friend and I am honored to have her kick off this year of conversation. Ruth is a gem. I'm sure you will agree after listening to our conversation. 

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    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

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    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    22 min
  • If You're Reading This, I Must be Dead

    What?? Who "reads" podcasts and why would I say this? How would you feel if someone you follow in social media or podcasting, YouTube, etc, seemed to drop out of your feed, for no apparent reason at all? How would you know what happened to that person? I am considering making a podcast with a similar title. I also think this is a good reminder to stay in communication with the folks I love most, so that I won't drop out of sight from them. I don't want them to get some maudlin letter stating I have died. I hope those I love most already would know that. How about you? 

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    7 min
  • Want Conversation? How About Death Café?

    I attended my first Death Café in 2012. I enjoyed the experience so much I continued to attend different Death Café meetings throughout San Diego. I became a host of Death Café in 2014.  Take a listen and see for yourself that talking about death and dying does not have to be scary. It may even be fun! 

     http://deathcafe.com

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    18 min
  • Hello 2023 - Welcome to The Year of Conversation

    We are at the beginning of a new year. I don't tend to make resolutions from year to year but for 2023 I do have some changes I'd like to make in my conversations. Have you been considering your end of life plan? We will be talking about the many avenues we can take in starting the discussion about our end of life. We will have interviews sprinkled throughout this year in addition to more education about the Good Death.
    Thanks for joining me in this new season! 

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    9 min
  • The Year of Conversation is Coming. Are You Ready?

    It's been several months since I began talking with you about end of life conversations. I've been preparing you for your opportunity to speak to those you love about your choices. Are you ready? 


    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    6 min
  • Blue Christmas Tree

    I saw a decorated Christmas tree recently that shook me. I was moved. I took a photo of a flyer that hung on the wall behind the tree that described the tree and its purpose.

    To see a photo of the tree, check out https://grimtea.com, and click Blog in the menu
    or https://whilewerestillhere.com, and click on the Blog menu

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    4 min
  • Oops! I Made Another Mistake - I Was Not a Good Listener

    How can I not be a good listener when I've been told by so many what a good listener I am? This happened in a way I didn't consider until I started talking about how to derail a conversation. Listen in on my mistake.

    Reach me:
    [email protected]
    https://grimtea.com

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    9 min
  • It takes More Than Ears To Listen

    What can stop heartful conversation in its tracks? We bring our history, perceptions, attitudes and judgments into conversation. If we are careful we can bring out the speaker's intentions by the way we listen and respond. When we are listening with judgment, attitude, impatience or hurt, the conversations don't often produce the results we had hoped to achieve. We are wrapping up listening as we look toward The Year of Conversation.
    Reach me:
    https://[email protected]
    https://grimtea.com

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    18 min
  • Do You Have Your People?

    When you have stuff to talk about but not people to talk about it with, whether because the stuff may be considered too heavy or serious or scary? The PEOPLE, the folks you can talk about anything with, who get you, whom you trust?

    Reach me:
    https://[email protected]
    https://grimtea.com

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    10 min
  • What is Conversation?

    We learned about listening, now let's discuss how we can validate what our speaker is saying to us. We can narrow down emotions and tease out feelings that may have been expressed as anger or sadness but actually have a different root, such as fear or loneliness. Exploration into better conversation can improve communication. 
    Take a listen.

    Reach me: 
    https://[email protected]
    https://grimtea.com

    Have questions? Send me a message!

    Listen and learn about death doula work: https://whilewerestillhere.com 
    Reach me at [email protected]

    Facebook: While We're Still Here

    Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score. 
    The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - [email protected]

    22 min

About While We're Still Here

From the publisher's feed

My parents died within five months of each other. It was a blur. Several years later, to help a friend discuss her end of life, I went to a Death Cafe. That was it. No going back. Now the subject…