In a world of pretenders its easy to forget that when the camera goes off who you really are has to shine through. A saying my mom taught me was "every actor has to lay that part down sometime."..........................What that meant was simply that eventually who you are shines through. I had to own who I was and not play the blame game when I was called out in my 20s. Now in my 40s I have learned to embrace who I am. When people meet me they say how much they appreciate that I don't flip flop. The reason is honestly I can only be me...................Do you struggle figuring out who you are? What about your online persona? Do they match? .....................We talk about that and Will and Jada marriage, Beyonce concert/movie, Content Creation, authenticity, and so much more......................Follow me on socials as Toitimeblog and on the blog