As we age, the list of our friends in heaven will continue to grow. There are people we look forward to seeing again in heaven. There are many brothers and sisters in Christ who invest their time in our spiritual lives, and they are likely the people we are most grateful for today.

The author of this proverb spoke about the gifts we receive in this lifetime that we are grateful for. “Oil and perfume” can be defined as the finer things in this world that we are always thankful to receive. A great gift makes our lives sweeter and our hearts glad. The greatest gifts make our hearts and lives stronger. The proverb says, “The sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.” 

Sometimes we are afraid to tell our friends the whole truth, even when they most need it. Earnest counsel must come from an earnest counselor, a person who deeply cares about God’s work and will in your life.

To have friends who truly want to help strengthen our walk with God is a great blessing. A friend who deeply cares about God can offer us God’s care. That friend’s “word of counsel” is often important advice and God’s great blessing for our lives.

A good friend’s counsel is sweet, earnest, and intended to be our best help. A good friend is one of God’s richest blessings on earth.

Good advice and careful instruction provide wisdom. It is fun to receive gifts from people we care about, but it is a blessing from God to receive earnest counsel from a friend who loves us and wants us to live closely with God. Will you praise God for who those friends are in your life? And will you pray to God to be that kind of friend in the lives of others?