Who Says We can't

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Oops that started out a bit bumpy.

We aren't trying to look younger. We're refusing to let getting older be a bad thing and make us disappear.

Sisters, Mags and Kath look back at how fashion expectations for older women have shifted, from restrictive, “age-appropriate” wardrobes to choosing clothes for personal style and comfort. Our message isn't that our mothers and grandmothers dressed badly. It's that we want every woman to use her own mind to dress exactly how she chooses. She isn't asking for your opinion because she doesn't need it to be herself.

They share stories about body image, color, bras, shorts, and a disastrous perm, they make the case for dressing the body you have and letting go of rules that no longer serve you.

• Mags and Kath trace changing ideas about older women’s fashion, from sensible shoes, below-the-knee dresses, and set curls to today’s broader freedom of choice.
• They unpack how age-appropriateness, body dysmorphia, and the pressure to hide shape or size can narrow what people feel allowed to wear.
• A bra-shopping story shows how finding a comfortable, pretty fit helped Mags feel more at ease in her body and explore a style she enjoyed.
• The sisters describe their evolving personal styles: Mags favors structured, classic pieces with band tees and playful details, while Kath leans casual, edgy, and soft, with jeans and oversized jackets.
• They recall rejecting colors and clothes based on family opinions, then discovering that trying something on - including yellow - can change how it feels.
• Sleeveless tops, shorts, and showing their arms became small but meaningful steps toward dressing for comfort rather than anticipated judgment.
• They share fashion missteps, from painful long-pointed boots and low-rise jeans to a body perm that left them with massive afros and damaged hair.
• Their advice: dress for yourself, try the colors you love, and remember that confidence and feeling good matter more than size or age.

action items for our listeners

• Try on a color or style you have ruled out; keep it only if it feels right to you or try something else.
• Choose clothes for your comfort and taste, rather than age-based expectations or pressure to hide your body.

Local boutiques and creators we love

Real Spirit Women's Boutique

The Vision Parlor - vision wear

The R.A.K. - A consignment Boutique

RevivebyKat -creator and designer

Ruth Bancroft - makeup artist and educator

Lindsay Mills - creative, stylist( interiors, you and your business) artist, photographer

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Summary

In this episode, two sisters share their experience of a transformative photo shoot that show cased the many expressions of who they are. Something they didn't expect was the boost in their confidence and maybe a nudge towards embracing self-love. They discuss the importance of embracing aging, expressing oneself through fashion and art, and challenging societal expectations for women over 60 and 70's.

Key topics

• The transformative power of professional photography for self-confidence
• How art and fashion help express identity at any age
• Overcoming self-doubt and embracing aging
• The importance of self-love and self-acceptance
• Challenging societal expectations for women over 60

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In this episode, sisters Megs and Kathy share their candid experiences with aging, discussing surprises, challenges, and perks of being seniors. They explore topics like aging and healthcare, estrogen therapy (note we are not doctors - we are sharing our experiences please discuss any healthcare concerns with your physician), and embracing personal style at any age, offering insights and encouragement for women approaching or living through their senior years.

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Please send us suggestions for challenges for each other - things women over 65 are supposedly too old to do. You think this might be easy but we do a lot of things we aren't suppose to do. Get creative.