Who picks up the bill?

It seems like a simple question—but beneath it lies a web of expectations, power dynamics, gender roles, and evolving relationship norms.

In this episode of Love Science Today, we explore the psychology, sociology, and subtle signals wrapped inside the “who pays” debate. Using relationship science, anthropology, and modern behavioural studies, we ask: what does paying say about power, values, and expectations?

You’ll discover:

The history of paying on dates (and how it still echoes today)

The role of gender, culture, and financial equity in dating norms

Why some people feel disrespected or devalued depending on who pays

How “who pays” can unconsciously influence attraction, respect, and reciprocity

Practical, respectful ways to navigate this conversation without awkwardness

We’re not giving you rules.

We’re giving you awareness.

Because in modern love, conscious choices beat automatic habits.

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