Choosing Happy

Who Would You Be Without the Struggle?


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What if I told you that you might already be living parts of the life you keep dreaming about, and you just haven't noticed?

Yup, that’s the juicy nugget we’re diving into today!

I’m Heather Masters, and we're going to chat about how we often get so caught up in the hustle and grind that we forget to celebrate the wins we’ve already bagged.

I mean, I’ve been living in the most remote village in England for nine years, and somehow, that was still on my goals list after seven years! Talk about missing the memo!

So, let’s explore the idea that maybe, just maybe, the real journey isn’t about chasing the next shiny thing but rather recognising and relishing what we’ve already achieved. Grab a cuppa, get comfy, and let’s figure out how to let ourselves count our blessings instead of just counting our goals!

Takeaways:

  1. In our relentless pursuit of dreams, we often forget to notice when they're already happening.
  2. It's easy to get caught up in the struggle and miss the beauty of our current lives.
  3. Acknowledging our achievements is crucial, as some dreams arrive quietly and without fanfare.
  4. Instead of always striving for the next goal, let's take a moment to celebrate what we have accomplished.

Chapters:

  1. 00:10 - Recognizing Your Achievements
  2. 02:06 - Living the Dream: A Reflection on Goals
  3. 05:10 - Embracing the Moment of Arrival
  4. 06:51 - Integrating Achievements and Recognizing Progress
  5. 08:24 - Recognizing Your Presence

If you’ve ever:
  1. Achieved something you once deeply wanted — but barely paused
  2. Felt restless even when life is objectively good
  3. Focused on what’s missing instead of what’s here
  4. Wondered why satisfaction feels fleeting

This conversation is for you.

Because sometimes the next evolution isn’t more ambition.

It’s integration.

It’s allowing yourself to say:

“This counts.”

Some dreams don’t arrive dramatically.

Some goals don’t need upgrading — they need recognising.

And somewhere out there, a past version of you would be stunned by your current life.

Before you add something new to your list this week, pause.

Look around.

You might already be there.


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