Choosing Happy

The main point: as the year winds down, we’re deciding where to put our time and energy, and I’m digging into how modelling — from neuro‑linguistic programming — can help us make those choices and actually follow through.

I’m Heather Masters, checking in after a bit of radio silence to share what’s been happening (loss of my lovely dog, a significant birthday, a bout of Wi‑Fi drama) and how those life bits have pushed me up against boundaries I’m reconsidering. I talk honestly about grief and capacity — you can have big plans and still need gentler care — and I share a proper lived example of moving from “absolutely not” to “I drove in France” (yes, the roundabouts were as dramatic as you imagine).

I explain why noticing what worked when things did go well — the tiny practical details we usually ignore — is a brilliant strategy for tackling new challenges. I’ve also been recording interviews with people doing exceptional things, and I’ll be sharing those conversations soon, but for now I offer a small experiment: pick a manageable win, map out what you actually did, and try one piece of that on something you’re considering now. Come join me as we choose happy, get less stuck, and maybe practise another roundabout or two for good measure.

When I say I’m back, I mean properly back — with interviews lined up and a pocketful of reflections after a patchy break.

This summary leans into the practical: modelling, the NLP idea of studying excellence, and how to extract real-world tactics from successes you barely even noticed at the time. I walk you through what modelling actually looks like — paying attention to decisions, patterns, conversations, how someone recovers when plans go sideways — and suggest you apply that same curious detective energy to your own wins.

If your first instinct is "I was more confident," I challenge you (gently!) to pin down what that actually looked like in behaviour and prep. That’s the useful stuff you can copy-and-paste into new situations. To make it properly usable, I give a tiny, doable journalling exercise: pick a small boundary you crossed in the past, list the exact moves that got you through, and borrow one micro-strategy for something you’re considering now.

My own borrowed strategies included remembering why the freedom mattered, noticing other nervous drivers (and not being alone in the panic), and leaning on the courage I’ve seen in clients. It’s practical, low-drama, and exactly the kind of thing that helps you choose happiness without feeling pressured to reinvent yourself overnight.

• 00:06 - Catching Up — My Recent Break and What’s Ahead
• 03:13 - Acknowledging grief — losing my dog and moving forward
• 05:53 - Driving in France — Embracing the Unknown
• 10:11 - Modeling Ourselves — Using NLP to Learn from Success
• 15:24 - Exploring the Decisions Available to You
• 18:14 - Back and Looking Ahead — Upcoming Interviews & Listener Questions

• I acknowledge grief and practical life at the same time, reminding us that happiness includes holding sorrow.
• I drove in France despite decades of avoidance, and that roundabout marathon taught me useful courage strategies (and a funny new skill).
• We can model success by examining exactly what people do — the decisions, attention, habits and behaviours — not just vague confidence.
• I'm asking whether I'm ready to put a commercial value on my experience and bid for bigger corporate work, while keeping my worth separate from outcomes.
• I invite you to try a tiny experiment: pick a small past win, unpack what you actually did, and test one specific part now.
• I'm bringing interviews about NLP, modelling and practical strategies to help us choose happy and navigate life's nonsense over these final months.

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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When life puts you in the space in between, pause in the shock, play in the unknown, and give yourself permission to emerge.

We're diving into the squishy, gooey space of transformation this week, where life feels like a giant bowl of mush!

Join me, Heather Masters, as we chat about those awkward moments when everything seems to be falling apart, and you’re just left floating around like a confused snowflake in a snow globe.

From the gut-wrenching “Oh my God” stage to embracing the mush and finally emerging with shiny new wings, I’ve got three pathways to help you navigate this wild ride. Plus, I’ll share a personal story about my fur baby who recently crossed the rainbow bridge, reminding us all that change, while tough, is also a place of new beginnings.

So, grab your favourite beverage and settle in—there’s a little gift of a webinar waiting for you at the end!

The Detail

Life can be a bit of a rollercoaster, can't it?

One minute you’re flying high, and the next, you’re stuck in the mush between what was and what’s next.

This week, I’m getting real about that transformative journey we all go through — yeah, it’s not just you!

I’ll share how losing my loyal pup threw me back into the depths of change and how we can all navigate these squishy times.

We’ll uncover the three stages of transformation that can help you through the chaos:

first, the shocking ‘Oh my God’ stage, where the ground shifts beneath your feet.

Then, we’ll explore the mush stage, where it feels like you’re caught in a swirling snow globe, and finally,

The emerging stage, where you get to spread those wings and embrace the new you!

I promise it’s not all doom and gloom — there’s humour, hope, and a sprinkle of light-heartedness to guide you through the mush.

So, let’s dive in together and find the joy in the transformation!

Chapters:

• 00:14 - Navigating the Space in Between
• 04:17 - Navigating Transformation: The Journey Through the Mush
• 05:53 - Navigating Grief: Steps to Survive the Shock
• 07:55 - The Mush Stage
• 11:27 - Emerging into a New You

Takeaways:

• Navigating the mush of transformation is a wild ride, but trust the process!
• Heather dives deep into the emotional chaos of change and how to find grounding.
• Discover the three stages of transformation: the shocking 'OMG' phase, the mushy void, and the inspiring emergence!
• Grieving and change can feel like a snow globe, but it's all about finding calm amidst the chaos.
• Allowing yourself to feel all the feels is crucial—don't rush the healing process!
• Embrace the uncertainty of the mush; it’s where new possibilities and versions of yourself can emerge!

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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Well, you’re not alone! Join me, Heather Master, as I dive into my own fitness journey and the surprising hurdles I faced when my workout routine began to eat into my precious morning time.

I’ll share how I creatively combined dog-walking with squats and lunges to keep moving without sacrificing my schedule. We’ll explore the importance of embracing change, shifting our mindset, and recognising the gifts that come with adapting. Whether it's exercise, work, or life in general, let’s tackle those pesky disruptions together and find ways to keep our spirits high while juggling it all! So grab your cuppa, pop on those headphones, and let’s get our happy on!

Life can feel like a never-ending game of dodgeball, and just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, BOOM – change comes flying at you!

In this episode, I’m spilling the beans on my fitness journey and how I managed to juggle workout challenges while keeping my mornings intact.

After realising I was turning into a couch potato over winter (gasp!), I hopped on the fitness bandwagon with some challenges.

But when my 30-day challenge morphed into a time-consuming beast, I knew I had to get crafty. Enter the genius idea of combining dog walking with workouts – because why not make Fido your workout buddy? Trust me, squatting by the lamppost while your dog sniffs every blade of grass is a sight to behold!

But this episode isn’t just about my doggie workouts; we’re diving deep into how to adapt to change in our lives.

I’ll share three golden nuggets: First, let’s shift our mindset and embrace that change is just part of the ride. Second, we’ll explore how to creatively leverage our time and resources – can your housework double as a workout?

Spoiler: yes! And third, we’ll tap into that magical gift of intuition. Sometimes, it’s our gut that knows best, especially when logic starts leading us in circles.

So, whether you’re in the midst of a life transition or just trying to figure out how to fit in a workout, join me for a fun-filled chat on how to keep choosing happiness amidst the chaos!

• 00:05 - Starting a New Fitness Journey
• 02:50 - Adapting to Change: Strategies for Resilience
• 06:18 - Incorporating Exercise into Daily Life
• 09:11 - The Role of Intuition in Navigating Change
• 12:19 - Embracing Intuition and Creativity

• Adapting to change is essential, and often requires us to shift our mindset and focus on what we can control, rather than resisting change.
• Combining tasks creatively can save time and boost motivation, like exercising while walking the dog – multitasking for the win!
• Using our intuition can be a powerful guide when facing uncertainty, allowing us to make quicker, more effective decisions.
• Recognising the gifts of our unconscious mind can open up new paths and opportunities, especially in times of rapid change and uncertainty.
• When faced with challenges, it’s a good idea to ask ourselves: what can we learn from this situation, rather than dwelling on what we’ve lost?
• Flexibility and creativity in problem-solving can lead to unexpected solutions, so let's embrace the chaos and find the fun in adapting!

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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Intro

Action is the name of the game, and this week, I’m diving deep into why moving your body is the secret sauce to feeling more alive and kicking those brain fog blues to the curb!

I learned the hard way that just being busy doesn’t cut it; it’s all about intentional action, and let me tell you, I’ve had my fair share of “throwing mud at the wall” moments.

We’re chatting about how taking a proper walk can work wonders, and why it’s crucial to check in with what’s actually working in our lives instead of just grinding away.

So grab your favourite snack—Hobnobs, anyone?—and settle in as we explore how slowing down sometimes sets the stage for speeding up, and how we can all get a bit clearer on what we really want!

The Detail

Heather Masters takes us on a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of action (and inaction) in this episode of Choosing Happy!

With her trademark playful tone, she recounts her past year of relentless hustle, where she was buried under a mountain of tasks without a clear direction. Imagine a pizza, but a pizza that’s also a metaphor for feeling a bit lost – that’s how Heather describes her state of mind.

It’s a relatable, funny narrative that sets the stage for a discussion about the importance of meaningful action in our lives.

As we plunge into the meaty core of the episode, Heather shares her newfound wisdom on how just being busy doesn’t equate to being productive. She tackles the buzzword ‘consistency’ and offers a refreshing perspective: it’s not just about showing up every day; it’s about showing up with intention. Are we doing things that matter, or are we just hiding behind a flurry of activity?

With her infectious enthusiasm, Heather encourages us to assess our actions and make sure they align with our goals.

She’s all about finding that sweet spot where action meets intention, and it’s a revelation that feels like a warm hug on a chilly day!

By the end of this episode, listeners are left feeling invigorated and ready to tackle their own action plans with clarity.

Heather wraps it up with a challenge that’s as delightful as it is thought-provoking: take a moment to identify one action in your life that’s just a cover for avoidance. It’s a little nudge to help us all move forward with purpose, and who doesn’t love a good nudge?

So, grab your favourite snack, kick back, and get ready to embrace the joyful chaos of life with Heather’s insights on action and intention!

Chapters:

• 00:13 - The Power of Action in Creativity
• 01:55 - Reflections on Consistency and Action
• 05:51 - Finding Clarity in Action
• 09:32 - Building Systems vs. Being Busy
• 11:48 - Finding Your Intentional Action

Takeaways:

• Action is the magic ingredient that transforms ideas into reality, so get moving!
• Sometimes the best thing to do is to slow down and listen to your own needs.
• Being busy doesn't always equate to being productive; focus on what truly matters instead.
• Intentional action is where the real progress happens, rather than just doing for the sake of it.
• Finding clarity in your goals can turn frantic activity into meaningful achievements.
• It's crucial to differentiate between genuine action and mere busywork to avoid burnout.

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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Please like, share with someone who may need to hear this today, and/or leave a review and support the podcast. I really appreciate it.

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Ever feel like your dreams are on a different planet than your everyday reality?

Well, grab your cuppa and settle in, because today we’re diving deep into the whirlwind of transformation that comes when life shakes things up!

I’m chatting about how to keep your eyes on the prize when everything around you seems to scream “be realistic!”

It’s all about navigating the naysayers—both external and that pesky inner critic—and instead, choosing to live from the dream you’re aiming for. Join me as I spill the tea on three delightful ways to bridge that gap between your dazzling vision and the now, ensuring you keep strutting towards your goals, even when the universe seems a bit uncooperative.

Let’s get ready to rock that reality!

• 00:01 - Navigating Transformation
• 01:13 - Exploring the Dream: Navigating Reality and Aspiration
• 06:55 - Choosing a Fresh Start
• 10:05 - Embracing the New Vision
• 10:58 - Choosing Your Vision

• Heather talks about how recent changes in her life have sparked a major transformation, shaking her to her core.
• She emphasizes the importance of having a clear and vivid vision for your dreams, not just a vague idea.
• We can choose the meaning we give to our current reality, influencing how we perceive our progress.
• Stepping into the identity of who we want to be can help us align with our goals and diminish doubt.
• Doubt is just faith that things will go wrong; we can choose to believe in our dreams instead!
• Creating a powerful vision is key, and we should act as if our dreams are already reality, even when they aren't.

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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Got a dusty piece of equipment lurking in your house, just waiting for the day you decide to give it a whirl? Well, you’re not alone! This week, we're diving into the hilarious and oh-so-relatable world of pandemic purchases that have turned into glorified furniture. Heather shares her own saga with a rebounder that sat in its box for five long years—yes, five years! But here’s the kicker: it’s not just about the rebounder! It’s all about the stories we tell ourselves, the guilt we carry, and the support we often forget to ask for. So grab a cuppa, kick back, and let’s uncover how a little help can turn a mountain of procrastination into a molehill of action!

Picture this: Heather, our host and resident cheerleader, finally faces her nemesis—a rebounder that’s been languishing in its box since the pandemic began. I mean, who hasn’t bought something shiny and new in the hopes of transforming into a fitness guru during lockdown? Spoiler alert: most of us end up with a pile of ‘I’ll get to it later’ clutter! In this episode, we explore the hilarious yet poignant journey of finally getting that rebounder out of the box, with a little help from a friendly neighbour. What starts as a simple task morphs into a deep dive into the narratives we create about time and capability. Heather shares her lightbulb moment—realising that it wasn’t about finding more time, but rather about embracing support. It’s a reminder that sometimes, asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness, but a brilliant strategy for moving forward. So, if you’re juggling the weight of unfulfilled aspirations and the guilt of procrastination, join us for a fun chat that’s sure to lift your spirits and maybe even inspire you to tackle your own ‘rebounder’!

Chapters:

• 00:31 - The Stories We Tell Ourselves
• 01:31 - The Struggle to Start: Overcoming Barriers to Action
• 03:30 - Letting Go of Guilt and Asking for Help
• 05:05 - Finding Control in a Noisy World
• 06:11 - Embracing Support and Imperfection
• 07:10 - Wrapping Up the Episode

Takeaways:

• Many of us have items lying around that represent our hopes from the pandemic, like that rebounder gathering dust in the corner. Isn't it funny how those purchases reflect who we thought we wanted to be?
• Heather's experience with her rebounder is a reminder that sometimes we just need a little help to get things done, because asking for support isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a brilliant strategy!
• We often mistake a lack of time for a lack of support. The truth is, it’s not about having more hours in the day, but about having the right people by your side to tackle life's little challenges.
• The anxiety of unfinished tasks can weigh more heavily on us than actually doing them, so let’s drop the guilt and tackle those tasks one small step at a time.

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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Remember: Keep choosing happy. Not by coping… but by coming back to life.

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Well, Heather Masters is here to sprinkle some wisdom on that!

In this episode of the Choosing Happy Podcast, we dive into the idea that maybe, just maybe, the life that feels too snug is actually a sign that you’re ready for a fabulous upgrade! Heather shares her journey through a world of monumental changes—like the time we all had to figure out what a computer mouse was (spoiler: it’s not a pet!).

We chat about the beauty of Generation X being the bridge between the old and new, and how this perspective helps us not just survive but thrive amidst the chaos.

So grab a cuppa, kick back, and let’s shift gears together, because it’s time to embrace the life that truly fits you!

In a world that’s changing faster than a chameleon on a rainbow, Heather Masters is here to remind us that feeling like your life no longer fits isn’t the end—it’s merely the beginning of a new chapter!

With her trademark warmth and wit, she shares tales from her Gen X upbringing, where floppy disks were all the rage and computers had a learning curve steeper than a rollercoaster. It’s a nostalgic stroll down memory lane that sets the stage for a conversation about resilience and adaptability in the face of constant change.

As Heather reflects on monumental events that shaped her generation—from the IRA bombings to the Great Financial Crisis—the takeaway is clear: we’ve been through the wringer and come out stronger on the other side!

She posits that the struggles and uncertainties we face today aren’t just challenges; they’re opportunities for growth. And while younger generations might be overwhelmed by the digital noise, Gen X brings a unique perspective to the table—one that blends the old with the new, the analog with the digital. In this episode, Heather encourages listeners to reclaim their power in a time of uncertainty.

She highlights that it’s perfectly fine to feel like your old life no longer fits; it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. Instead, it’s about recognising that you’ve grown, and with growth comes the need for change.

She’s on a mission to empower women to step confidently into a future that aligns with their true selves. So if you’re feeling stuck, get ready to be inspired! Heather’s insights might just be the spark you need to ignite a new passion or venture.

And hey, if you're looking for a little guidance, she’s got coaching spots open—because the world needs you to show up as your best self!

• 00:17 - Embracing Change: A New Perspective
• 02:49 - The Shift from Offline to Online Living
• 04:29 - Navigating Change: The Role of Gen X in an Uncertain World
• 07:10 - Navigating Change: The Perspective of Generation X
• 08:31 - Embracing Change: The Gift of New Beginnings

• Life that feels out of place isn't a sign of failure; it's a sign of readiness for something new!
• Generation X has been through monumental changes, making us adaptable to shifting times and circumstances.
• When the world gets noisy, we need perspective; let's remember our roots and what we know!
• If your life no longer fits, don't panic—this could be the universe nudging you into your next great adventure!
• Embracing change means recognising that it's not about starting over, but growing into who you truly are.
• The wisdom from our experiences equips us to handle life's uncertainties with grace and clarity.

Ready to explore more?

• Website: choosinghappy.space
• Instagram: @ChoosingHappyPodcast

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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Remember: Keep choosing happy. Not by coping… but by coming back to life.

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So, let me spill the tea!

Today’s chat is all about that sneaky feeling of being “done” with life—yep, I’ve been there too!

I’m Heather Masters, and I’ll be sharing my personal journey of rediscovering my zest for life, inspired by a heart-to-heart with my son and some lightbulb moments while diving back into my NLP roots. We’ll explore how grief can quietly steal your spark, but more importantly, how we can reclaim it!

Plus, I’ll be spilling the beans on a fabulous client who, at 70, decided to dive headfirst into coaching and lifeguarding—proof that it’s never too late to say “yes” to life!

So grab your cuppa and let’s get inspired to live our best lives, shall we?

Takeaways:

• Heather shares her journey of feeling 'done' with life and how that shifted.
• Lockdown quietly turned down the volume of Heather's life, making her less adventurous.
• A heartfelt conversation with her son reignited Heather's passion for life and adventure.
• Experiencing grief can be a slow thief, robbing us of our zest for living.
• Inspiration comes from unexpected places, like a movie that sparked the idea of living fully.
• Coaching can help people rediscover their passions and find excitement, even at 70.

Chapters:

• 00:17 - A Journey of Self-Rediscovery
• 03:25 - Navigating Change: Reflections on Loss and Growth
• 07:03 - Embracing New Beginnings
• 10:05 - Rediscovering Passion in Later Life
• 11:52 - Embracing Change and Personal Growth
• 15:06 - Embracing New Beginnings

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Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

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New episodes drop every 2 weeks. Subscribe so you never miss one, and if this episode helped you, please leave a review—it helps other women find the podcast when they need it most.

Remember: Keep choosing happy. Not by coping… but by coming back to life.

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Ever found yourself waiting for the perfect moment to dive into something, only to be told by a total stranger that you’re already more than ready?

Yup, that’s what happened to me!

This episode dives into the hilarious yet oh-so-relatable dilemma of feeling like we need to be "more" before we can just show up and be ourselves.

I chat about how we often stack up courses and certifications like trophies, thinking they’ll magically transform us into the version we want to be.

Spoiler alert: it’s not the knowledge gap we’re dealing with, it’s an identity gap.

So grab your headphones, because we’re unpacking this quirky little pattern of “doing” our way into “being” and why sometimes, all we really need is to just take the plunge! There’s something oddly comforting about the feeling of waiting, isn’t there?

Like, we convince ourselves that we’re in 'preparation mode,' when in fact, we’re often just hiding behind our 'to-do' lists.

It’s a fun ride through the ups and downs of self-discovery, complete with a hefty dose of humour and insight. If you’ve ever felt like you’re racing against the clock to become more qualified, this episode will give you the nudge to realise that you might just be ready right now — no course required!

Chapters:

• 00:06 - A New Direction in Coaching
• 02:06 - Understanding the Identity Gap
• 04:16 - Defending Limitations
• 05:38 - Understanding Permission and Identity
• 08:25 - Choosing Happiness: Overcoming Limitations
• 10:01 - Exploring Permission and Authenticity

Takeaways:

• Sometimes all you really need is to just show up, not another course, mate!
• We often confuse doing with being, but true confidence comes from knowing you already are enough.
• Waiting for permission to be yourself is just fear dressed as productivity, let’s ditch that!
• Catching the pattern of postponing your dreams can be the first step towards happiness, folks!
• Courses are great, but don’t forget to check if you’re just buying permission to be who you already are.
• Let’s stop defending our limitations, because you are ready right now, my friend!

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What if I told you that you might already be living parts of the life you keep dreaming about, and you just haven't noticed?

Yup, that’s the juicy nugget we’re diving into today!

I’m Heather Masters, and we're going to chat about how we often get so caught up in the hustle and grind that we forget to celebrate the wins we’ve already bagged.

I mean, I’ve been living in the most remote village in England for nine years, and somehow, that was still on my goals list after seven years! Talk about missing the memo!

So, let’s explore the idea that maybe, just maybe, the real journey isn’t about chasing the next shiny thing but rather recognising and relishing what we’ve already achieved. Grab a cuppa, get comfy, and let’s figure out how to let ourselves count our blessings instead of just counting our goals!

Takeaways:

• In our relentless pursuit of dreams, we often forget to notice when they're already happening.
• It's easy to get caught up in the struggle and miss the beauty of our current lives.
• Acknowledging our achievements is crucial, as some dreams arrive quietly and without fanfare.
• Instead of always striving for the next goal, let's take a moment to celebrate what we have accomplished.

Chapters:

• 00:10 - Recognizing Your Achievements
• 02:06 - Living the Dream: A Reflection on Goals
• 05:10 - Embracing the Moment of Arrival
• 06:51 - Integrating Achievements and Recognizing Progress
• 08:24 - Recognizing Your Presence

• Achieved something you once deeply wanted — but barely paused
• Felt restless even when life is objectively good
• Focused on what’s missing instead of what’s here
• Wondered why satisfaction feels fleeting

This conversation is for you.

Because sometimes the next evolution isn’t more ambition.

It’s integration.

It’s allowing yourself to say:

“This counts.”

Some dreams don’t arrive dramatically.

Some goals don’t need upgrading — they need recognising.

And somewhere out there, a past version of you would be stunned by your current life.

Before you add something new to your list this week, pause.

Look around.

You might already be there.

🌿 Share this episode with someone who’s chasing something they might already have.

Tag @ChoosingHappyPodcast and let Heather know what landed.

Visit www.choosinghappy.space for more episodes, resources, and ways to work together.

Ready to explore more?

• Website: choosinghappy.space
• Instagram: @ChoosingHappyPodcast

New episodes drop every week. Subscribe so you never miss one, and if this episode helped you, please leave a review—it helps other women find the podcast when they need it most.

Remember: Keep choosing happy. Not by coping… but by coming back to life.

Please like, share with someone who may need to hear this today, and/or leave a review and support the podcast. I really appreciate it.

Want to dive deeper? Drop me an email: [email protected]

Join the conversation: Community | https://buymeacoffee.com/choosinghappy

Heather Masters

Copyright 2026 Heather Masters

If you are enjoying the podcast and would like to donate you can do so here: (Thank you in advance)

Support this Podcast

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If this episode resonated with you, please: • Subscribe to Choosing Happy wherever you listen • Leave a 5-star review (it helps other women find this work) • Share with someone who needs to hear: "You're not unforgivable" • Visit heathervmasters.com to learn about working together

© 2026 Heather V Masters | Choosing Happy Podcast All rights reserved.