Who Would You Tell

Recorded on my actual birthday, this solo episode is a reflection on what turning 29, and the second last year of my 20s has actually looked like.I get into the frustration I felt for most of this year: doubting an episode enough to almost not release it, feeling stagnant with Debates Never Die despite real growth, struggling to finish writing football articles, and living with a low-grade dissatisfaction I didn't know how to act on. I also talk about grief, the pressure that comes with losing people young, and how much time I've spent "living in the future" worrying about problems that weren't actually happening yet instead of just being present. Very scattered episode but one that I hope you enjoy regardlessMore WWYT on the way!

This week on Who Would You Tell, I'm joined by comedian Linde Sibanda — Breakthrough Comedian of the Year, and Siwe Mbatsha for a conversation about what "being an adult" actually feels like versus what it looks like from the outside, specifically as someone who is in many ways all the way into his adulthood, a married man, a father, but also someone still figuring out a relatively new journey.We get into Linde's own path into comedy at 24, the conversation (or lack of one) with his parents when he decided to pursue it full-time, and what changed once he had a wife, a kid, and people relying on him. We also talk about the specific weight of being a comedian, and how he manages it allOne of my personal favourite episodes. I hope that you enjoy it even moreHappy listening

In this episode of Who Would You Tell, I sit down with my brother for a conversation we've been circling for years on the podcast, the journey of addcition, in probably the most personal episode, we discuss what this has been like for him.We talk about what actually helps someone in recovery (and why most advice doesn't), the pressure to become a completely different person overnight, why making amends isn't always the right move, and what it means to hold someone accountable without holding a grudge. If this episode means something to you, comment, like, and share it with someone who you think would benefit from listening to this.More Who Would You Tell is on its way soon

This week's episode didn't go as planned. My brother was set to join me to talk about addiction, accountability, and sobriety, a topic he actually suggested, but he couldn't make it, so I recorded solo instead.This is not the planned or final version of the episode, but more an intro into what got me here in relation to the episode itself. An honest look at what it's actually been like to watch people I love go through addiction and recovery. I talk about the guilt of judging people I care about, what it means to love someone "from a distance" when you don't know how to help, and navigating the feeling of losing that sense of closeness when someone you care about is in throes of itThis is a behind-the-scenes version of an episode that's still coming, the full episode with my brother will be released once we reschedule. Consider this the setup: why this topic matters to me, and what I hope the full conversation offers anyone navigating addiction in their own life.

In this episode of Who Would You Tell, I'm joined by Cairo, to open a new series on public accountability and atonement. We discuss why apologising has become a performative, almost commercial act, and what comes with thatWe talk about the difference between personal amends (like those made during sobriety journeys) and the public, often hollow apologies celebrities and influencers issue to "the internet." We get into specific cases and ultimately, the limits of accountability when mental health is involved, the BAFTAs slur incident, and the different points where apologies stop being for individuals but become public content instead.We also dig into South Africa's own complicated relationship with public atonement through the TRC, why we hold influencers more accountable than politicians, and what a healthier, more forgiving culture of accountability could actually look like.

In this incredibly raw episode, we have a returning guest in Palesa Maloisane as she joins Khanya to unpack the fear of failure.Palesa is a successful lawyer, one of the funniest people I know, and for the purposes of this episode, thankfully she is also one of the most open people I know. This episode is not as strutured as I would have liked, and honestly it is because at this moment in time I still don't have the answers myself. I hope that somehow, the episode is still helpful for you.Hope that you enjoy this episode

How would you know you were failing? How do you gauge success? And when is it time to pivot? This week on Who Would You Tell, Khanya sits down with Malcom following his return to South Africa after 9 years abroad, MBA in hand, earlier than planned, and in the middle of figuring out what comes next.9 years. An MBA. International work experience. By most estimations, that sounds pretty good, In this episode, Khanya and Malcom get into making sense of the journey so far, and what progress actually looks like when life is this unpredictable? How do you measure success when the goal posts keep moving? All this and more discussed in the latest episode of WWYT

We're back! First episode of 2026, a new trailer, a new guest, lots to be excited about in this one. If you're returning to the podcast, welcome back, and if you're new here, thank you! This episode serves as a reminder to go after the things you love, today I'm joined by two filmmakers, and more notably, two filmmakers in the week of Joburg Film Festival, it feels like an incredibly well timed episode. Nontokozo Mlaba's film: Melusi is being screened at Joburg Film Festival this weekend at 2PM at the Forge. Please do your best to try and watch his movie and all the other local movies being displayed, its awards season in America, but its important to keep in mind that we have an abundance of talent in South Africa. There are always dozens of things going on at once, but in times like these, I'm incredibly grateful to have have the time to discuss films once again. We’re proud to have had Mr Mlaba make his podcast debut with us — an incredibly talented filmmaker, and someone we’re grateful to have hosted this week.

For those interested, Tickets for Joburg Film Festival are available here: https://joburgfilmfestival.co.za/

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Who Would You Tell?

Season 6 begins on March 4th. I hope you're just as excited