As Bible Christians, the Lord God has given us the tools needed to be successful in our vocation as ambassadors for Christ. However, in order to have successful relationships, we must be spiritually prepared for them. Servants must first understand what real love is, recognize their roles IN GOD, and depend on faith in the Word of God. Without proper preparation and understanding of the way that God wants us to connect with Him and each other, any relationship we try to establish will eventually result in failure. Overall, spiritual relationships are about SELFLESSNESS...not selfishness.