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Why Being Needed Feels Safer Than Being Loved - EPS 85
Have you ever felt like feeling mom guilt means you are a good mom?
Like if you stopped feeling bad about resting, saying no, or taking space… you might be a bad mom?
Many Christian moms have been taught that self-sacrifice equals love. That being strong means carrying everything. That feeling guilty is conviction.
But what if being needed feels safer than being loved?
In this episode of The Mom Self-Care Podcast, I'm talking about why so many moms feel more comfortable being needed than being loved and what that reveals about how you view your worth.
I talk about:
💜 How mom guilt is passed down.
💜 Why self-sacrifice can become your identity.
💜 The belief underneath it all: Do I actually believe I’m worthy of love?
💜 A faith-based reminder of who you are in Christ.
It’s about asking a deeper question: Do I believe I am worthy of love without earning it?
Because when worth is questioned, receiving will always feel uncomfortable.
If this episode resonates you, I want to invite you to join me for Learning to Receive Love at the end of this month. We’re going deeper into breaking the belief that love must be earned and learning how to feel secure in receiving love from God, others, and even yourself.
Join us for Learning to Receive Love on Feb. 28th here: https://mailchi.mp/774c1b5eaac5/a35f3hwk49
Share this episode with a momma you love. 💜
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Need 1 on 1 support? ✅ Book a coaching call with me: https://bit.ly/callwithChari
Get your Self-care affirmations book: https://payhip.com/b/ENwb
👉 Get your Free Guide 5 Lies Mom Guilt Makes You Believe & What the Bible Says Instead here: https://mailchi.mp/f51947652f1c/5-lies-mom-guilt-makes-you-believe
Join me online:
💜 Connect with me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cicinspireme/
💜 Join our Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RockYourFierceFaith
💜 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cicinspireme
Email: [email protected]
About your host: Chari Twitty-Hawkins inspires moms to embrace self-care, self-awareness, and self-compassion! She is a certified transformational trainer, life coach, and author specializing in self-care for moms.
Keywords: Christian mom self-care, mom guilt, mom mental health, emotional awareness, Christian moms, mom self care
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By ChariHave you ever felt like feeling mom guilt means you are a good mom?
Like if you stopped feeling bad about resting, saying no, or taking space… you might be a bad mom?
Many Christian moms have been taught that self-sacrifice equals love. That being strong means carrying everything. That feeling guilty is conviction.
But what if being needed feels safer than being loved?
In this episode of The Mom Self-Care Podcast, I'm talking about why so many moms feel more comfortable being needed than being loved and what that reveals about how you view your worth.
I talk about:
💜 How mom guilt is passed down.
💜 Why self-sacrifice can become your identity.
💜 The belief underneath it all: Do I actually believe I’m worthy of love?
💜 A faith-based reminder of who you are in Christ.
It’s about asking a deeper question: Do I believe I am worthy of love without earning it?
Because when worth is questioned, receiving will always feel uncomfortable.
If this episode resonates you, I want to invite you to join me for Learning to Receive Love at the end of this month. We’re going deeper into breaking the belief that love must be earned and learning how to feel secure in receiving love from God, others, and even yourself.
Join us for Learning to Receive Love on Feb. 28th here: https://mailchi.mp/774c1b5eaac5/a35f3hwk49
Share this episode with a momma you love. 💜
------
Need 1 on 1 support? ✅ Book a coaching call with me: https://bit.ly/callwithChari
Get your Self-care affirmations book: https://payhip.com/b/ENwb
👉 Get your Free Guide 5 Lies Mom Guilt Makes You Believe & What the Bible Says Instead here: https://mailchi.mp/f51947652f1c/5-lies-mom-guilt-makes-you-believe
Join me online:
💜 Connect with me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cicinspireme/
💜 Join our Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RockYourFierceFaith
💜 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cicinspireme
Email: [email protected]
About your host: Chari Twitty-Hawkins inspires moms to embrace self-care, self-awareness, and self-compassion! She is a certified transformational trainer, life coach, and author specializing in self-care for moms.
Keywords: Christian mom self-care, mom guilt, mom mental health, emotional awareness, Christian moms, mom self care