Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Can’t She Trust Me—Even Now? The Hidden Impact of Betrayal Trauma


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Why can’t she trust me, even after disclosure? Learn how betrayal trauma, unsafe responses from others, and lack of purpose delay healing. Listen now.

Full Summary:

Even after the truth comes out, trust doesn’t come back right away. Why? Because the damage runs deeper than the behavior—it shatters her trust in herself and in anyone she turns to for help. In this eye-opening episode, Maurice Harker breaks down the ripple effects of betrayal trauma and explains why being a man with a clear purpose is more powerful than just “trying to be better.”

You’ll also discover how friends, family, church leaders, and even counselors often make things worse—and what true emotional safety looks like from her side.

🎧 Topics covered:

  • Why betrayal trauma creates double damage

  • What “purpose” really looks like in recovery

  • How others unintentionally deepen her isolation

  • The myth of “she just needs to get over it”

  • What to do instead of defending yourself

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