In this episode, I share what I learned about prison friendships, documentation, and credibility. Some people surrender with a plan, only to have a case manager dismiss it. That can be a test. They're watching how you respond. I tell the story of a physician who quietly earned extra time in the community just by living consistently and productively. And I also share my own mistake—aligning with the wrong friend, Arthur. At first he encouraged me to exercise, but soon I saw the mockery, the judgment, and the hypocrisy I was enabling. Breaking away freed me to spend time with men who built rather than complained, and it gave me space to teach a class that actually helped others. If you want to hear more, listen to the podcast version, and if you prefer to read, you can find the full blog on White Collar Advice.

Justin Paperny