Whenever I am asked this question, its usually with a sense of dread, self loathing, or disbelief... or all 3 and more!  Its hard coping with the sense of loss and grief of someone who was horrible to you.

It is ok to miss an abusive partner.  It is ok to grieve the loss of that relationship.  Missing an abuser doesn't mean you deserve the abuse, or made it up. 

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