Dismantling DV includes dismantling racism.  As Black History Month comes to a close, here are our top recommendations for learning more about Black feminism, violence against Black women, nonbinary and trans people, and discussions about how to talk about race. 

Fearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings 

Consumed by Aja Barber, Instagram @ajabarber

Hood Feminism by Mikki Kendall Instagram @karynthia

So You Wanna Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo Instagram @ijeomaoluo

Queer and Trans Artists of Color by Nia King Instagram @manifestotv Podcast We Want the Airwaves

Feminism is for Everyone by bell hooks

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Today we analyze an episode of emotional and physical abuse triggered by... the super bowl tubi commercial. 

We also examine stereotypes about domestic violence that are exposed within this incidence, such as victim blaming and the normalization of aspects of physical abuse. 

Trigger warming for discussions of abuse!

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Happy Valentines Day all!  For this lovely holiday, we decided to revisit an important topic: red flags in dating violence.  Although we all understand it is not our fault if our dating partners (or friends) abuse us,  knowing how to identify early warning signs of a toxic or abusive person can be a helpful tool and way to build confidence in navigating relationships. 

In this episode, we look at 3 major categories and give examples and digressions to help you in your dating journey. These are also handy for personal friendships as well!

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Welcome to 2023! 新年快乐!

With the new year comes goals and resolutions.  In this episode, I am sharing mine and how they relate to my overall goals of ending domestic violence and violence against women and marginalized groups.  I hope they inspire you and encourage you in your journey as an ally and advocate in 2023. 

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And happy Lunar New Years Eve! 新年快乐! Don't forget to clean your house and wear red this weekend to bring good luck and a fresh start to the new year.  Eating dumplings, fish, noodles, and chicken are also traditional, and considered to bring happiness, money, and longevity. 

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For fans of horror and folklore, we present an audio experience featuring 10 ghost stories from around the world. 

Each story has deep cultural roots in East Asian, South Asian, and El Salvadorian folklore and touch on elements of domestic violence.  We embark on an exploration and celebration of cultural storytelling, while inviting the audience to engage with the deeper themes of violence against women of color.

Listen to the first story now! Please visit teamtead.org and download today!  Available with a donation of $5 or more.  All funds go to our mission of ending domestic violence. 

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Abusive individuals can use gifts as a tool of control and cruelty.  Which makes things difficult for survivors living in a society where gift giving is so expected. 

TW for stories of abuse.

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We wish you and your loved ones a happy and safe holiday season,

Sincerely,

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We're back and coming in hot just in time for the holiday season with a special episode all about BOUNDARIES

Because what holiday isn't complete without spending time with people who love to push your buttons.

Also, why are boundaries so hard to set and tips for how to do so. 

Plus digressions on The Shining and James sings a Christmas carol.  Sort of. 

Guest: J.B. Web (he/they)

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Self sabotage.  Getting in your own way.  Blowing up your life.

What is it? How does it harm you? How can I begin to stop?

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No.  Not unless YOU want to.  Not unless you are ready. Not unless it will help YOU in your healing goal.

Also... make sure to show the same compassion and forgiveness towards yourself. 

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Whenever I am asked this question, its usually with a sense of dread, self loathing, or disbelief... or all 3 and more!  Its hard coping with the sense of loss and grief of someone who was horrible to you.

It is ok to miss an abusive partner.  It is ok to grieve the loss of that relationship.  Missing an abuser doesn't mean you deserve the abuse, or made it up. 

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