Charles shares what "being established" means to him & dives into why some guys prefer to have their lives sorted out before settling down, rather than figuring things out while in a relationship. Notable phrases in this episode? Glad you asked! - "the hoe phase", "some of your brothers have left some of our sisters wounded" & "there's a difference between 'a friend' & 'my friend'..." Tune in for a good time!

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Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen