This episode examines many of the reasons why women specifically date, sleep with and marry guys that aren't their best choices.

Men may think it has more to do with the guy being a Smooth Operator as the song implies. After asking women about this over the years, it is the woman's voluntary choice.

We are going to examine the reasons and causes for this behavior. Contrary to popular belief, their choice to choose a man of this caliber has less to do with love and more to do with managing feelings.

Redemption, control, self-esteem, being right, and many other elements beyond the obvious are explored.

Another aspect that men may not understand is the reasoning for women who do this allow the chosen men to avoid certain scrutiny based on standards. Why do they lower them for those guys and not others that are far better men? One of the obvious go to's is sex. Again, you would be surprised that sex is far less important. It is all about the women and their perceptions.