In this episode, we’re joined by Monica Tanner, host of Secrets of Happily Ever After, to explore the myths that quietly shape our expectations of marriage. We dive into what actually helps couples communicate more openly, rebuild intimacy, and create relationships grounded in mutual respect. If you’ve ever questioned the “rules” you’ve been taught about love, this conversation offers a refreshing and practical new perspective.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Marriage Myths

01:51 Monica's Journey and Background

07:00 Communication: The Key to Relationships

10:09 Identifying Common Marriage Myths

18:50 The Importance of Collaboration in Marriage

22:31 Navigating Communication in Relationships

27:16 Challenging Myths Around Sexuality

30:56 Cultivating Compassionate Curiosity

37:10 Key Takeaways for Relationship Growth

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Book: https://a.co/d/025VpZLO

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KnkyQGEr20TnQsfmx7kX0?si=01e6f9237346405f

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