What if the problem isn’t that you need more discipline... what if you’ve simply been pushing through pain your nervous system never learned how to process?

In this powerful episode of The Self-Leadership Lab, Bobby Shelton sits down with Dr. Alena Čandová, author of Grace Over Grit, to unpack why so many high achievers stay stuck in cycles of:

• Anxiety

• Overworking

• People-pleasing

• Burnout

• Emotional shutdown

• Self-abandonment

You’ll learn:

• Why grit alone can keep you stuck

• How your nervous system shapes your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors

• The connection between childhood programming and adult leadership

• Why high performers often live in “functional freeze”

• How to regulate your nervous system for long-term healing

• The difference between pushing harder... and healing deeper

If you’ve ever felt successful on the outside but disconnected on the inside; this conversation is for you.

About Alena

Dr. Alena Čandová is the author of Grace Over Grit: The Neuroscience of Claiming Your Inner Authority and the creator of the Grace Over Grit Method, a neuroscience-based framework for sustainable, embodied transformation.

Website: https://www.sattvaintegralhealth.com

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self-leadership, nervous system regulation, burnout recovery, high achievers, emotional healing, anxiety recovery, subconscious programming, trauma healing, mindset, discipline, leadership development, inner work, identity transformation