Why do I feel butterflies around emotionally unavailable people… but nothing when someone kind, open, and ready shows up? In this episode, I unpack a frustrating pattern I’ve noticed in my dating life and ask some big questions—Is this attraction? Or is my nervous system being triggered? I get real about past situationships, attachment styles, nervous system chaos, and the challenge of redefining what “excitement” in a relationship really means. If you’ve ever mistaken anxiety for love, this one’s for you.