Who said what? With Heba and Nira

Why Is Setting Boundaries So Damn Hard?


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In this week’s episode of Who Said What?!, Heba and Nira get real about one of the trickiest topics out there: boundaries.


Nira opens up about how she's learned to say no without the guilt—and how standing her ground has brought her peace. Heba, on the other hand, admits that her struggle to set boundaries often leads to confusion, burnout, and blurred lines in both personal and professional relationships.


From friendship drama and childhood patterns to work stress and even White Lotus commentary, this episode is full of raw reflections, funny moments, and the honest back-and-forth that only sisters can have.


They also tackle:

  • Why saying no at work isn’t always helpful
  • When boundaries backfire
  • Why confrontation doesn’t scare Nira (but terrifies Heba)
  • And how setting boundaries with men hits differently

  • Plus, a rapid-fire round that spills all the tea.


    If you’ve ever struggled with saying no—or felt guilty when you did—this one’s for you.

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    Who said what? With Heba and NiraBy Heba & Nira Shunbo