If you scroll through social media, you'll see a war of words. Men saying they're done; women saying they've had enough. It's loud, it's bitter, and it feels like a race to see who can care the least. Most call this "giving up," but there's another truth: We are leveling up.

In this episode of How I Unfucked My Life, Christine DeGrazia challenges the idea that the "good ones" have disappeared. The reality is far more empowering. Once you begin to honor your self-respect and protect your peace, your "standard of entry" changes. You aren't seeing a shortage of people; you're seeing a shortage of people who are worthy of the masterpiece you've already started building.

Christine shares her journey from the "post-divorce scramble"—operating from a place of perceived need—to the realization that her own competence is a reliable foundation.

This episode is for you if:

• You're tired of settling for a life that feels smaller than you are.

• You've been treating your life like a "waiting room" for a partner.

• You're ready to move from "Will they like me?" to "Do they earn a place in the peace I've built?"

Stop waiting for a "missing half." You are already whole. It's time to stop looking for someone to complete the picture and start finding those who respect the world you've already created.

Remember: You are the architect of a world that is already complete