Episode Overview
In this episode of The YouSchool Podcast, we’re tackling one of the most challenging aspects of parenting: giving your kid the independence they crave while still guiding and supporting them. If you’re tired of constant clashes and feeling like you’re walking on eggshells, this episode is for you. Discover how autonomy-supportive parenting can reduce power struggles, build trust, and help your kid develop the confidence and resilience they need to thrive.

We’ll break down:

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[0:24] The Core Parenting Struggle
Why do kids push back so hard? They’re craving independence—but in a way that feels supported, not abandoned.

[1:13] The Research Behind Autonomy Support
Learn about the decades of research behind autonomy and why it’s essential for your kid’s growth.

[3:00] Why Parents Struggle to Let Go
We break down the top 10 reasons parents hesitate to give their kids autonomy, including fear of failure, control issues, and societal pressures.

[9:34] The Impact of Autonomy on Kids
Discover how giving your kid independence builds confidence, resilience, and a stronger relationship with you.

[12:26] What Autonomy Is (and Isn’t)
Clear up common misconceptions about autonomy and learn what it means to provide freedom within boundaries.

[15:13] Practical Ways to Offer Autonomy
Get actionable examples for everyday parenting scenarios, from homework to screen time and friendships.