We always ask this question “Why Me” when we’re going through something. Why Not You? God is using you to show others that if he can bring you thru something, he can also bring them through. Strength in God builds a faith that can trust Him, even in the darkest moments. Remember that trials (of any kind) can cause us to lose, or worse, consciously abandon our faith. You don't always have to know the "why" in order to heal properly and to move on successfully.