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So many moms move through the holidays carrying a weight they never talk about — the weight of trying to create “perfect” moments for everyone else.
The perfect holiday.
The perfect mood.
The perfect memory.
But here’s the truth we dive into in this episode:
Perfect moments don’t matter.
The real ones do.
And most moms are unintentionally missing them.
In this week’s Calm Mom Season holiday series episode, we explore the quiet pressure that pulls moms out of the present and into performance, and how to reclaim the moments that actually matter.
This conversation is honest, grounding, and deeply human.
If you’ve ever found yourself rushing, fixing, curating, or trying too hard to “make it magical,” this episode will feel like someone putting a hand on your back and saying, “You can breathe now.”
✨ Inside this episode, we talk about:
Why moms often miss the very moments they’re trying to create
The emotional root of perfectionism during the holidays
A personal story that shifted my entire perspective
What real presence looks like in everyday motherhood (it’s messy and beautiful)
How to slow down enough to actually experience your life
A grounding 5-minute presence practice you can use anywhere
This week’s Calm Mom challenge: a no-phone night or a slow morning
The thing your family remembers long after the moment is gone
✨ This episode will help you:
release pressure
soften your expectations
reconnect with what actually matters
feel more human and less “held together”
find calm in the middle of real life, not after it
This is your invitation to stop chasing perfect…
and start living the moment you’re in.
Press play when you’re ready to feel lighter.
Be sure share this will your mom friend and follow the podcast so you don't miss any future episodes.
Connect with Lisa:
Instagram → / selflovecoachingco
TikTok → / thelisahardie
Website → www.selflovecoachingco.com
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By Lisa HardieSo many moms move through the holidays carrying a weight they never talk about — the weight of trying to create “perfect” moments for everyone else.
The perfect holiday.
The perfect mood.
The perfect memory.
But here’s the truth we dive into in this episode:
Perfect moments don’t matter.
The real ones do.
And most moms are unintentionally missing them.
In this week’s Calm Mom Season holiday series episode, we explore the quiet pressure that pulls moms out of the present and into performance, and how to reclaim the moments that actually matter.
This conversation is honest, grounding, and deeply human.
If you’ve ever found yourself rushing, fixing, curating, or trying too hard to “make it magical,” this episode will feel like someone putting a hand on your back and saying, “You can breathe now.”
✨ Inside this episode, we talk about:
Why moms often miss the very moments they’re trying to create
The emotional root of perfectionism during the holidays
A personal story that shifted my entire perspective
What real presence looks like in everyday motherhood (it’s messy and beautiful)
How to slow down enough to actually experience your life
A grounding 5-minute presence practice you can use anywhere
This week’s Calm Mom challenge: a no-phone night or a slow morning
The thing your family remembers long after the moment is gone
✨ This episode will help you:
release pressure
soften your expectations
reconnect with what actually matters
feel more human and less “held together”
find calm in the middle of real life, not after it
This is your invitation to stop chasing perfect…
and start living the moment you’re in.
Press play when you’re ready to feel lighter.
Be sure share this will your mom friend and follow the podcast so you don't miss any future episodes.
Connect with Lisa:
Instagram → / selflovecoachingco
TikTok → / thelisahardie
Website → www.selflovecoachingco.com