Do we need punishment to change human behaviour? What is the difference between shame and remorse?

Vivek Patel is no ordinary parenting coach. Vivek rebels against the idea that shame and punishment are needed to change human behaviour. Vivek Patel is a father and coach leading a consulting, coaching, and support community called Gentle Parents Unite.

A cathartic interview, to say the least, I understood more about my relationship with failure. Maybe you will too.

Whether you are a parent or not, you will find deep wisdom if you follow Vivek's podcast and social media. He offers his coaching with the Gentle Parents Unite community for an incredible value. I highly encourage you to join and create a long-term impact on your family (links below). 

Tune in every other Tuesday for a new episode on Heart of Humans!

1:29 Home is belonging and integration
3:18 Vivek's experience with punishment as a child
8:18 My relationship with failure
10:57 The difference between remorse and shame
12:43 Change does not require shame
15:11 Example of how shame manifests in small moments
19:23 The biggest gamble is on love
22:29 What risks Vivek will never take with children
24:56 Using the gratitude response
27:20 Choosing a collaborative mindset

Gentle Parents Unite Community:
https://gentleparentsunite.podia.com/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/gentleparentsunite/

Gentle Parents Unite Podcast:
https://open.spotify.com/show/7M5za9t0BqhBF2wLgLjk4k?si=-yngnupbTSGQgBz07rp13Q

Vivek Patel's Social Media:
https://www.instagram.com/meaningfulideas/