They got close.Then they pulled away.And you were left confused, questioning yourself, and wondering what you did wrong.This video breaks down a painful but common emotional pattern:Closeness → Withdrawal → Confusion.What felt like love may have actually been a cycle your nervous system adapted to one built on inconsistency, unpredictability, and emotional distance.In this episode, we talk about:• Why intense connection often comes before emotional withdrawal• Why confusion is one of the most destabilizing emotional states• How intermittent closeness creates attachment (even when it hurts)• Why you didn’t imagine this, and you didn’t cause it• The moment many people start abandoning themselves to keep the connection aliveIf you’ve ever found yourself overthinking texts, monitoring behavior, shrinking your needs, or blaming yourself for someone else’s distance, this isn’t because you’re weak or insecure.It’s because your nervous system was trying to find safety in unpredictability.And once you understand this pattern, healing stops being about fixing yourself, and starts being about reclaiming clarity, stability, and self-trust.If this resonates, stay with this series.We’re not here to villainize anyone.We’re here to bring your power back.💬 Comment below if this felt familiar.📌 Subscribe for the rest of the Healing Series.🎥 Next episode: Why emotionally healthy love never feels like this.You didn’t imagine it.You adapted.And now, you get to heal.🌱 Want deeper accountability and support?Join the Pieces to Peace Healing Community (7-Day Free Trial) and connect with others who are walking this same path: https://www.skool.com/pieces-to-peace-4967/about

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