You’ve prayed.You’ve waited.You’ve hoped God would change the pattern.

But what if waiting isn’t the problem?

In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down why misalignment—not timing—is often the real reason love hasn’t shifted, even for faithful, self-aware Christian women. This is a teaching-heavy, truth-forward conversation that challenges surface-level self-love and digs into how loving yourself first actually changes the men you attract.

You’ll learn:

• Why prayer alone doesn’t dismantle dating patterns

• How unhealed familiarity disguises itself as chemistry

• What self-love really looks like beyond affirmations and routines

• How emotional regulation and discernment protect your heart

• Why awakening love too soon leads to confusion and heartbreak

• What Scripture teaches about desire, discipline, and alignment

Using the often-misunderstood example of the Shulamite woman from Song of Solomon, this episode explores how desire without discernment creates damage—and how aligned women steward their hearts differently.

This is not about blaming yourself.
It’s about becoming honest enough to choose differently.

If you’re tired of repeating the same emotional story with different men—and you’re ready to reset how you date, discern, and show up—this episode will meet you right where you are.

🎧 And if this conversation resonates, the 3-Day Love Strategy Challenge is your next step toward clarity, alignment, and intentional change.