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Why You Cannot Heal in the Same Place that Broke You


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Episode 31: In this episode, Lea explores the often-overlooked truth: healing doesn't happen in the same environment that caused your pain. She opens up about her own journey of stepping away from the familiar to prioritize wholeness and self-connection. This is a raw and honest conversation about why personal growth sometimes requires brave decisions, emotional boundaries, and a deep belief that you’re worth choosing, over and over again.

Whether you’re in the middle of a transition or feeling the nudge to make one, this episode is for you.


Key Takeaways:

Many people struggle to grow in environments that do not support them.
The familiar can be a dangerous place when trying to heal.
Personal growth often requires leaving behind old habits and relationships.
Healing rarely happens in the place that broke you.
It's essential to create a space that allows for growth and healing.
Self-reflection is crucial in understanding what needs to change.
Choosing to live for oneself is a powerful step towards healing.
Supportive relationships are vital for personal transformation.
It's okay to feel uncomfortable when making changes.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.

Chapters: 

  1. 00:00 Introduction: The Educator Sanctuary
  2. 01:30 The Message for Someone
    Lea shares how the episode's message emerged from recent conversations and is meant for those navigating life transitions.
  3. 03:45 The Challenge of Familiar Spaces
    Discussion on how familiar environments can hinder personal growth and healing.
  4. 06:00 Personal Story: Seeking Change
    Lea shares her personal journey of realizing the need for change and moving away from unsupportive spaces.
  5. 09:00 The Importance of Self-Reflection
    Encouragement to reflect on one's

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The EducateHer’s SanctuaryBy Dr. Lea