Girl and Her Bible

Why You Keep Falling For Potential


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You didn’t fall for him on accident.

What attracted you was never just chemistry, it was unhealed belief.


In this episode of Girl & Her Bible™, we expose the hidden patterns behind the people you keep choosing: romantically, emotionally, spiritually, and how trauma can twist attraction into a trap.


From romantic obsession to friendship codependency to performance-based family ties, this episode unpacks why attraction isn’t random, it’s reflective. And if you keep attracting brokenness, it’s time to ask what part of you still believes you need to earn healing.


What We Break Down in This Episode:

  • ​ Why you confuse passion with pain
  • ​ How trauma-trained attraction distorts your discernment
  • ​ Why “He completes me” is a red flag, not a revelation
  • ​ The 4 ways broken attraction shows up (romance, friendship, family, business)
  • ​ What healed attraction actually looks like
  • ​ How to reject the rescuer role and reclaim your peace


🎯 Key Quote:

“Healing never comes from being chosen by a mirror. It comes from looking in the mirror, and finally choosing yourself.”

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Girl and Her BibleBy Pastor Amber