In my early 20's I struggled to grow as a person.  I wanted to stay in my comfort zone and not change a thing about my life. 

But the thing is Life Is Always Changing.

If you can accept that change is inevitable and whether you want things to change or not is irrelevant.  The decision to change yourself and grow will become easier to accept. That there is so much potential inside of you waiting for you  to accept this Fact. When you do you will become more fulfilled and happy that you accepting the challenge to grow!