When our husband is always wanting to be intimate with us, we probably have a lot of thoughts about that.  And when our husband suddenly doesn't want to have sex with us, we are probably going to have a lot of thoughts about that, too.

Unfortunately, the thoughts that seem to get our attention are probably not very good ones.  In fact, they are often thoughts that lead us to make the assumption that they are having an affair.  And if we find ourselves going down that rabbit hole, we are probably feeling some negative feelings about them, about ourselves, and about our marriage.

But in today's episode, we are going to take a look at all of the possible reasons your husband's desire may have taken a turn, most of which have nothing to do with us on a personal level.  It will be important to consider all possibilities with a genuine desire to discover what is really going on for them, and then add an extra dose of compassion on top.  Doing so may be the exact ingredients that are needed to keep things from getting worse.