Jayson and Ellen explore how nervous system regulation impacts relational longevity and why being attuned to your partner changes everything. They talk about slowing down before trying to solve problems, becoming more aware of unconscious patterns, and not losing sight of your partner’s feelings. They also make the case for creating a home that actually feels safe. If you want a calmer, more connected relationship, this episode is for you.

Timestamps:

• 1:26 - The nervous system and relational longevity
• 4:55 - Are you attuned to your partner's nervous system?
• 11:06 - Being more sensitive to your partner before solving problems
• 17:50 - Being aware of unconscious processes
• 23:54 - Don't lose sight of you partner's feelings
• 27:15 - Make home a safe place

Links:

• ​⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ellen's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• ​⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jayson's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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