The Consciousness Method

Why Your Parents Hold the Key to Manifestation

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In this week’s episode of ‘The Consciousness Method’ Brendan Fitzgibbons shares in this raw conversation, what happens when you realise "who you are" is the biggest lie you tell yourself.

Some of the things we cover this episode:

  • The Mind-Bending Realisation: After his Bufo (toad venom) experience, Brendan couldn't shake one terrifying truth - if he could become someone completely different, that means he could be literally anyone. "The multiverse of possibilities... you could actually be 10 million other people."
  • Why Your Pain is Your Portal: While most spiritual teachers tell you to "think positive," Allura takes the opposite approach. Her revolutionary pain and fear meditations had Brendan doing 17 sessions in one month, experiencing "crazy electrical things" as stuck trauma finally moved through his body. The result? Real-world changes he'd been trying to manifest for years.
  • The Family Healing Bombshell: Mid-conversation, Allura delivers Brendan's most terrifying assignment yet - he needs to ask his parents about their childhood pain and start hugging them daily. His reaction? "We don't even really hug in this house." But here's why this matters for everyone: your intimacy with primary relationships determines your capacity for all other intimacy.
  • Going Where You're Most Afraid: Forget positive thinking. The real key is going exactly where you're most terrified to go. As Allura puts it: "If you're terrified to do that thing, go there. Go exactly where you're terrified to go."

    • What You'll Learn:

    • Why manifestation worked better when you were 19 and "didn't have a past"
    • The body hack that dissolves limiting patterns in real-time
    • How to use fear as a GPS system for your next breakthrough
    • Why your biggest trigger is actually showing you what to heal
    • The "electrical fence" metaphor that explains why you stay stuck

      • The Bottom Line: This isn't your typical spiritual bypassing conversation. It's about diving headfirst into what you've been avoiding - your pain, your family dynamics, your deepest fears - because that's where your freedom lives.

      Guest: Brendan Fitzgibbons - Comedian, podcast host, author, filmmaker, and spiritual seeker writing a book about his psychedelic journey.

      https://www.brendanfitzgibbons.com/

       

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      Warning: Contains explicit discussion of psychological transformation, family healing, and the death of your limited self. Not recommended for those seeking comfort zone maintenance.

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