I am a very hardworking guy who leaves home very early and returns very late at night. I'm very responsible and I provide for my lady whatever she requests and which includes random gifts. Due to my busy schedule, I hardly get time to take care of my home and some personal chores like cleaning, washing and cooking.I asked my girlfriend to come around on weekends to wash, clean and do other chores around the house for me which she refused, saying that those are supposed to be duties of a wife, and before she agrees to do that, she has to be legally married by me. I believe that if that is the case, then I also need to stop giving her money and invest in a maid for her to do the cleaning, since its not a boyfriend's duty to take care of the girlfriend.

Please help me out