It finally happened. I got a wig… while a man in a wig is the least revolutionary thing to do in 2021- it gave me pause and triggered memories rooted in gender and identity. Listen in as I share how a silly gag gift from my husband prompted unexpected reflection and play. I talk about my sorted relationship to my own hair and share how a wig turned me into a brute and turned on my masculinity. Grab your wig and let me tell you a story.