This week, we continue our study of the qualities Imam al-Ghazali has outlined to look for in a friend, and to embody as a friend to others.

Our Prophet has taught us that we will follow the way of our friends. So how does one choose friends? What ought they to look for? In the next section, Imam al-Ghazali explains what qualities to look for in a friend, and to embody as a friend to others.

Recorded: Jan 22, 2025

Most of us see moments of tribulation as a pain to be removed. Imam Izz bin Abdul Salaam reminds us that every encounter with difficulty is an opportunity to develop our character. Among the character traits that we can only learn through difficulties is forbearance.

Our Prophet has taught us that we will follow the way of our friends. So how does one choose friends? What ought they to look for? In the next section, Imam al-Ghazali explains what qualities to look for in a friend, and to embody as a friend to others.

We often think of strangers as people we meet spontaneously, without any consideration for the etiquettes and conduct we ought to exhibit with them. Imam al-Ghazali outlines 6 guidelines for how to ensure we treat strangers in the best manner.

Recorded: Jan 10, 2025

As we return to our regular programming, we resume our study of the wisdoms that Allah Most High has placed in pain. The hardships of life have a way of bringing us to our knees and raising our hands in supplication to Allah, seeking a way out.

The fourth benefit mentioned by Imam Izz bin Abd al-Salaam is turning to Allah during hard times. When we find ourselves struggling with our circumstances, we naturally look for those that can help us. And there is none more worthy of turning to in those moments than Allah.

Our Prophet has commanded us to treat others according to their status; this means that different people will have different rights of treatment that they deserve. In the next section, Imam al-Ghazali explains to us the different categories of acquaintances, and how we can interact with each of them.

The third benefit we acquire from experiencing difficulties in life is the development of sincerity in our relationship with Allah. We realize that none can remove the calamity from us but Allah, thereby purifying our hearts of trust and conviction in anyone other than Him.

Recorded: Dec 11, 2024

When we think of who our friends/companions are, we sometimes overlook Allah as our closest companion. Imam al-Ghazali begins the section on true friendship by speaking about what it means to be a faithful and devoted companion to Allah.