Wild Crazy Meaningful Enneagram

Wild Crazy Meaningful Enneagram

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Wild Crazy Meaningful Enneagram episodes

  • WCME 026: Exploring Type Four, The Romantic

    Path #4: The Jewel in my heart is Depth. When my Jewel shines clearly, I reflect Depth into the world like Alanis Morissette, diving into my own heart to unearth the treasures buried within, helping others know themselves more deeply through my own vulnerable self-expression. When my Jewel is obstructed by envy or melancholy, my essential Depth can come across as moodiness, self-consciousness, and haughtiness. I’m trying my best to find my essential Depth, and I need to remember that I can’t get that from escaping into my emotions; I can only find true Depth by being the eye of the hurricane, centered in myself.

    • the Jewel of the Four
    • feeling seen/heard
    • feeling your thoughts
    • identity, being different, being special
    • The Sorting Hat
    • “Dislike the Enneagram cause you’re too unique to fit in 1 of 9 types? You might be a Four.”
    • Fours are the most likely to know their Enneagram type
    • self-image and the painting
    • entitlement
    • waiting for a rescuer. “You are the one you’ve been waiting for.”
    • envy, longing
    • the Sufi story of the old dog and the bone
    • “look at me / don’t look at me”
    • Mystery, “you cannot possibly understand me”
    • Four goes to Two under stress
    • your feelings are not the whole truth
    • Personality Judo: true depth does not get tossed about like the stormy surface of the sea
    • dive into your soul… and then come up for air
    • keep your feet on the ground, and cultivate friends who will call you on your shit
    • When Four goes to One
    • Be a kaleidoscope, not a painting
    • The importance of structure
    • In the next episode, we’ll talk about the Cosmic Cookie Sheet…

      • If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

      And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

      We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

      53 min
    • WCME 025: A conversation with Kyeli, a Four (The Artist)

      We talk with our very own Kyeli about her experience of being a Four.

      Thank you, Kyeli, for sharing what it’s like to be you!

      If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

      And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

      We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

      59 min
    • WCME 024: Introduction to the Spiritual Dimension of Type Five (Essential Transparency, Essential Omniscience)


      Enneagram Study Group: Pace and Kyeli dive into The Spiritual Dimension of the Enneagram, by Sandra Maitri. In this episode we introduce the Essential Ideas of Type Five: Essential Transparency and Essential Omniscience.

      • Ego-Stinginess
      • Essential Transparency, Essential Omniscience
      • The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat, by Oliver Sacks
      • “soul-skin”
      • The CIA psychic division
      • the meaning of life
      • After explaining the meaning of life, we can finally explain what the limerick means

        • If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

        And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

        We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

        40 min
      • WCME 023: Exploring Type 5, The Observer

        Path #5: The Jewel in my heart is Clarity. When my Jewel shines clearly, I reflect Clarity into the world like Albert Einstein, exploring an area in exquisite detail until I grok it in fullness. When my Jewel is obstructed by fear of being unsafe, my essential Clarity can come across as aloofness or detachment. I’m trying my best to find Clarity, and I need to remember that I can’t get that from the outside; I can only find true Clarity by being willing to jump into life and experience it as a participant, not just an observer.

        • Fives think their feelings
        • hoarding (actual or metaphorical)
        • reading books about spirituality
        • Acting like an unhealthy Seven (Enthusiast) when under stress
        • Fives and Nines (Peace-Seekers) can look similar from the outside; here are the key differences
        • The path of growth for a Five
        • Acting like a healthy Eight (Challenger) when feeling safe
        • Holy Omniscience, Holy Transparency (not wholeness itself, but the facets of wholeness)
        • inner clarity, not outer clarity

          • If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

          And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

          We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

          39 min
        • WCME 022: A conversation with Danielle, a 5 (Investigator)

          We talk with Danielle about her experience of being a Five.

          • “feeling like a disembodied mind”
          • Danielle’s journey from a biomechanical perspective to holistic thinking

            • Links:

            • Wild Feminine by Tami Kent
            • WCML 041: Beyond Maiden Mother Crone, with Danielle Cornelius
            • WCML 048: Your insurance claim adjustor is not your friend

              • Thank you, Danielle, for sharing what it’s like to be you!

              If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

              And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

              We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

              42 min
            • WCME 021: Introduction to the Spiritual Dimension of Type 6


              Enneagram Study Group: Pace and Kyeli dive into The Spiritual Dimension of the Enneagram, by Sandra Maitri. In this episode we introduce the Essential Ideas of Type Six: Essential Strength and Essential Faith.

              Even if you’re not a Six and don’t care about learning the spiritual dimension of Type Six, listen to the first 20 minutes anyway because we talk about Essence in general and what this whole “spiritual” thing means anyway.

              • What is Essence? What is this whole “spiritual” dimension anyway?
              • We say “Essential Idea” instead of “Holy Idea” to avoid the religious baggage of the word “holy”.
              • Essential Strength
              • Essential Faith

                • If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

                And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

                We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

                42 min
              • WCME 020: Exploring Type 6, The Loyal Skeptic

                Path #6: The Jewel in my heart is Guidance. When my Jewel shines clearly, I reflect Guidance into the world like Ellen DeGeneres, building connection so we can all work together for the common good. When my Jewel is obstructed by anxiety, my essential Guidance can come across as skepticism or blind obedience to authority. I’m trying my best to find my essential Guidance, and I need to remember that I can’t get that from any person or organization outside myself; I can only find true Guidance by learning to trust the inner wisdom of my heart.

                • “Being a six: wanting to know for sure more than anything else in the universe, while simultaneously believing that knowing anything for sure is fundamentally impossible.” -Seanan Kristine Thomas
                • polarity push-pull: The Loyalist vs. The Skeptic
                • phobic vs. counterphobic Sixes
                • security, knowing the rules, wanting to know what’s expected
                • The center of the Thinking triad, feeling and doing are mushed together
                • The Jewel of the Six
                • The Passion of the Six: Fear (shows up as anxiety)
                • the inner committee
                • hypervigilance (but not like a Two’s hypervigilance)
                • stress and security points: 3 and 9
                • Enneagram Sixes: Take your hamster out of that wheel and onto a meditation mat!
                • Walk barefoot in the garden, despite the snake.
                • Notice your decision-making process.
                • Get past the safety dip; kick the duck
                • Why Sixes are awesome: persistence, Hufflepuff, community, faith
                • Holy Strength and Holy Faith – based on direct experience, not blind!

                  • Links:

                  • WCME 018: A conversation with Gloria, a 6

                    • If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

                    And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

                    We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

                    46 min
                  • WCME 019: Spiral Dynamics and the Enneagram, with Deborah Ooten


                    Spiral Dynamics puts the Enneagram into context: the context of your culture and your consciousness. If you have trouble seeing yourself in the usual descriptions of the nine Enneagram types, maybe it’s because you’re not looking at the right color of the spiral…

                    • What is Spiral Dynamics?
                    • Spiral Dynamics can help you see yourself in the Enneagram
                    • How Spiral Dynamics can help you understand other people and other cultures
                    • Spiral Dynamics explains why you feel like you’re crazy (or like everyone around you is crazy)
                    • “I really like beef, and I don’t really like polar bears.” -Deborah Ooten
                    • Spiral Dynamics as an aid for personal transformation and global transformation
                    • “The Enneagram isn’t who we are, it’s who we are not.” -Deborah Ooten
                    • How Kyeli skipped several turns of the spiral
                    • How Spiral Dynamics overlays with the Enneagram
                    • Spiral Dynamics and the Riso-Hudson Levels of Development

                      • Links:

                      • The Never Ending Quest
                      • Don Beck on Sounds True

                        • You can find Debbie Ooten at goconscious.com, where there’s a great overview of what each of the 9 Enneagram types looks like at each turn of the spiral.

                        If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

                        And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

                        We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

                        56 min
                      • WCME 018: A conversation with Gloria, a Six (The Loyal Skeptic)

                        • “Being a Six is like having a hamster constantly running in its wheel inside my chest.” -Gloria
                        • “I find belief to be an ability that maybe I lack.” -Gloria
                        • “I’d rather be 100% sure that you hate me than 80% sure that you love me.” -Gloria
                        • “I have people who are my friends, and then I have people who are my heart, and for those people I will lick something really disgusting for their honor.” -Gloria
                        • “I want to be the Secretary, not the president.” -Gloria
                        • “The worst thing is to be asked to leave.” -Gloria
                        • “I set up positivity mousetraps all around my apartment.” -Gloria
                        • The Usual Error

                          • Thank you, Gloria, for sharing what it’s like to be you!

                          If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

                          And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

                          We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

                          1 hr 1 min
                        • WCME 017: Find your life purpose using the Enneagram, with Jan Shegda


                          How to use the Enneagram to answer the question, “Am I being true to myself, and living the life I am here to live?”

                          Highlights:

                          • Your enneatype shows you the thing that you do without even trying
                          • Your enneatype also shows you how not to overdo that thing
                          • The life purpose of each type: 3 6 9 1 4 7 2 5 8
                          • Your instinct gives you the manner in which to express your gift and meet your needs (using 2 as an example)
                          • The core message of the Enneagram is that you don’t have to try so hard.

                            • Links:

                            • the pottery study

                              • You can find Jan at myclaritycoaching.com and on YouTube.

                              If you enjoyed this episode, would you be so kind as to leave us a review? You can find us by going to the Podcast page in iTunes and searching for “wild crazy meaningful enneagram”. Thanks! Your review helps more people discover the awesomeness of the Enneagram.

                              And if you’d like to discover how the Enneagram could help YOU, sign up for an Enneagram Exploration! The Enneagram Exploration is your opportunity to talk with me one-on-one about how the Enneagram can help you live a wild, crazy, meaningful life. If that piques your curiosity, you can find out more at EnneagramPodcast.com.

                              We’re here every Wednesday morning, so we’ll see you next time!

                              48 min