This week we're sitting down to discuss the reported dating trends of 2021. We're dissecting the ones that are still going strong, which ones are bullshit, and how dating will forever be changed going forward. Did you know that ghosting has decreased by 27%? Yeah, we were shocked too. Jazmin talks about how she's never had as hard of conversations in dating as she has now and Chanel does a deep dive on why dating seems to be a bit more hardball.  The word of the year is transparency and people are becoming more straightforward on what they are looking for. Wanna just get laid? That's cool. Ready to find "the one?" That's cool too.

We also talk about:

• How having different political views is more of a dealbreaker now than we've seen in awhile
• Your vaccination POV could weed people out
• Intentional dating is the future
• Women are owning their power than ever before
• Sexual curiosity and openness

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This week we welcome Chanel's friend, Ava, to the party to chat. We do a deep dive in how to find the polarity of feminine and masculine energy when you're dating or when you're in a relationship. Chanel talks about her struggles of tapping into her femine energy while Jazmin talks about overcoming her shyness by tapping into her masculine energy.

We also talk about:

• How Ava met her husband, Corey and her solo road trip through Australia
• How playing games when dating or in a relationship can be self sabotage
• The power of breathwork and movement and Ava's morning money dance routine
• Going to therapy with your partner pre & post marriage
• The growth in relationships and how to grow with your partner
• Chanel's attraction to drive and Jazmin's attraction to passion and creativity 

Go check out our girl Ava @avajohanna 

References:

The Intimacy Experts

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Here we are again, bitches! This week we're talking all about RED FLAGS. Let's be real here and say that red flags in men are like Furby's, that toy that at first we all really wanted but could never find, and once we got it it would randomly start talking to you no matter how much you would ignore it... finally you just had to throw it against the wall. Did that even make sense!? Anyway, Chanel talks about how she can be a moth to a flame when it comes to red flags with a man and Jazmin gets real about the warning sign that should be let off if a man wants nothing to do with their great family.

We also talk about:

• When you and your friend match with the same man on Bumble
• Chanel is still single and not worried about it
• All the red flags for him AND her from progressing too quickly, flipping your phone over at the table and using too many filters
• Also, what are some things people call out as red flags that AREN'T red flags

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Cha Cha & Jazzy J sit down with another dynamic duo that also happens to be a girl's best friend! Anisa Munshi & Heather Witt of Beauty Boost Med Spa in Newport Beach, CA hop on the pod to chat about the aesthetics business, knowing what to ask for when it comes to injectables, how much is too much, and the right questions to ask your injector or how to say no. But, in true Wild & Raw fashion, we made sure to get the deets on how they maintain being best friends and working together and if their husbands get in on the action (...come on people, we're talking getting botox! Get your mind out of the gutter).

Give us a follow on Instagram and let us know how many units of botox you get! ...Chanel just wants to make sure everyone else is getting as much as she is.

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We know them, we hate to admit that we get caught in their trap, and, let's be honest, they tend to be a really good lay. Yup, we're talking all about fuckboys. The best part of it? We have an MVP chatting with us so we can better understand the psychology of why fuckboys do what they do. Jazmin's long-time friend and former roommate, Bobby Adeli, is confessing all his dirty little secrets to us and what to spot in a man to know if he's actually, in fact, a fuckboy. Saddle up ladies, this is a good one and it's our first Wild & Raw guest!

We're also getting into:

• Chanel debates giving a fuck boy a chance
• Sunday strip clubs are the new church
• Charming Bobby teaches us his fuckboy ways
• We learn how Jazmin made a f*boy wait 8 years to seal the deal
• Jazmin & Chanel are taught the ultimate fuck boy routine including house tours, scary movies and back tickles

Check out our guest, Bobby Adeli @bobbyadeli, and follow along for his routine thirst traps!

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We're back at it this week and we're talking all about men's profiles on dating apps! PSA GENTLEMAN: We're talking about how we really feel about your fish photos and what makes you look like a total douche. Plus, how as women, we create a whole persona for a man before we even decide to swipe. On top of that, we're giving a THOT Girl Summer update and how Chanel is ranking. Jazmin talks about how she didn't delete her Hinge and how it came back to bite her in the ass...and not in a good way. Also:

• Thot girl summer is in full effect and Chanel is a strong contender for 2nd place
• Chanel had a potential whirlwind romance with her childhood neighbor
• Fake dating app profiles to catch a cheater
• A few tips for ladies on what to have on your dating app profiles

Episode reference: 2. Have You Ever Gotten Whiplash From Sex?

We're officially getting WILD & RAW! Our very first episode as our own podcast is here and we couldn't be more excited. We're talking about everything from Chanel's mid-day nudes to Jazmin's morning masturbation in front of her boyfriend. We're not all sex over here, though, we're also discussing how we met and eventually became podcast co-hosts. Chanel's been enjoying the post-pandemic ho phase (which we've coined THOT Girl Summer) and Jazmin has been falling more in love with Woodshop. So much more to come on Wild & Raw with new episodes every Wednesday. Saddle Up, Bitches!

We also talk about: 

• Chanel's psycho ex who briefly comes back into the picture
• How Wild & Raw came to be 
• Get to know Jazmin & Chanel from relationship status to favorite sex toy …and butt play?
• What you should always keep in your purse
• Being an entrepreneur means you can masturbate at 2pm
• ...and more!

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14: Loneliness comes at many different times, and whether you're single or in a relationship, you can still feel lonely. Today, we talk about the different times and ways that loneliness creeps into our lives. Some days of the week are worse than others, some times of the day are worse than others. It's all about how we manage this loneliness to keep us going! 

**This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don't mind the different intro music or reference to 'Just The Sip' (our original name we couldn't keep) but this sh!t is good and you don't want to skip it. 

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13: Are you the type of girl to go on one date a week, or do you have an entire lineup of dudes taking you to dinner M-F? Chanel is definitely more like the former but either way, dating and dating app fatigue is a real thing and Chanel has been feeling it lately.   We also talk about: • Focusing on yourself first • Looks vs personality • Third & fifth wheeling • Spending enough time with yourself • Being too "picky" and what that really means

12: SINGLE LADIES! Take up golf as a hobby, you will absolutely find someone to date, f*** or marry. Today, we give you updates on our personal lives; for Chanel, Casper returns, we bone, and then he ghosts me again. Time to break out the infrared thermometer and track this ghost down...or not. Jazzy J updates us on what it's like hanging out with her boyfriend, his ex-wife and his ex-wife's boyfriend. In light of the recent holiday, we also talk about how expectations can totally kill a relationship.   We also talk about: • Why Valentine's day is our favorite holiday, single or not • We play some Would You Rather • Hotel room sex

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This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don't mind the different intro music or reference to 'Just The Sip' (our original name we couldn't keep) but this sh!t is good and you don't want to skip it. 

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