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Will The Real Victim Please Stand Up?
How can professionals tell who is the real victim after a relationship with the Narcissist ends?
In this powerful episode, Loraine looks at the aftermath of narcissistic abuse—how professionals, courts, and even loved ones often struggle to identify the "real victim" when a toxic relationship ends.
Let me tell you about Skool.
https://successwithloraine.com/skool-sign-up
Narcissists are master manipulators, rewriting history, gaslighting, and playing the victim to evade accountability. Meanwhile, actual survivors are left traumatised, isolated, and struggling to articulate their pain. Drawing from personal experience, expert insights (like Dr. Ramani’s), and harrowing case studies, we expose the stark differences between a "false victim" (the narcissist) and an "actual victim" (the survivor). If you’ve ever wondered why victims aren’t believed—or how abusers weaponise the system—this episode is for you.
Best Moments from the Episode:
1. Dr. Ramani’s Stark Truth: "All domestic abusers are narcissistic. Zero empathy, incredible arrogance—that’s narcissism."
2. The Survivor’s Fog: Why true victims often sound "chaotic" when recounting abuse, while narcissists deliver smooth, calculated lies.
3. DARVO Exposed: How narcissists *Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender* to manipulate professionals.
4. Courtroom Betrayal: The shocking reality of how survivors are re-traumatised by legal systems that dismiss covert abuse.
5. Life After Abuse: Why true victims isolate themselves, while narcissists move on instantly—new relationships, social media bragging, and no remorse.
Equality Now - Human Rights Issues
https://equalitynow.org/news_and_insights/weaponizing-defamation-lawsuits-against-survivors-violates-international-human-rights/
Key Takeaways:
1. Spot the Patterns: True victims show PTSD symptoms (anxiety, confusion); false victims appear detached, entitled, and hyper-articulate.
2. Trauma vs. Tactics: Survivors self-blame and grieve; narcissists weaponise victimhood to "win" at all costs.
3. Systemic Failure: Courts often mistake a survivor’s anger for instability while believing the narcissist’s charm.
4. Silence Isn’t Consent: Many victims don’t report abuse due to fear, trauma bonds, or shame—not because it didn’t happen.
5. Healing is Possible: Recovery starts with therapy, community, and the realisation that you were never the problem.
Support the Mission: Help raise awareness of hidden abuse—share this episode, grab a copy of my book, or donate to support survivors.
💛 #justiceforsurvivors
Buy My Book
What Type Of Man? The updated 2024 Version.
Amazon US : https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B1RVQQDH
If you live in the UK https://amzn.to/3NBlQbx
Support LifeChangePlans
https://donorbox.org/support-life
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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By Loraine MarshallWill The Real Victim Please Stand Up?
How can professionals tell who is the real victim after a relationship with the Narcissist ends?
In this powerful episode, Loraine looks at the aftermath of narcissistic abuse—how professionals, courts, and even loved ones often struggle to identify the "real victim" when a toxic relationship ends.
Let me tell you about Skool.
https://successwithloraine.com/skool-sign-up
Narcissists are master manipulators, rewriting history, gaslighting, and playing the victim to evade accountability. Meanwhile, actual survivors are left traumatised, isolated, and struggling to articulate their pain. Drawing from personal experience, expert insights (like Dr. Ramani’s), and harrowing case studies, we expose the stark differences between a "false victim" (the narcissist) and an "actual victim" (the survivor). If you’ve ever wondered why victims aren’t believed—or how abusers weaponise the system—this episode is for you.
Best Moments from the Episode:
1. Dr. Ramani’s Stark Truth: "All domestic abusers are narcissistic. Zero empathy, incredible arrogance—that’s narcissism."
2. The Survivor’s Fog: Why true victims often sound "chaotic" when recounting abuse, while narcissists deliver smooth, calculated lies.
3. DARVO Exposed: How narcissists *Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender* to manipulate professionals.
4. Courtroom Betrayal: The shocking reality of how survivors are re-traumatised by legal systems that dismiss covert abuse.
5. Life After Abuse: Why true victims isolate themselves, while narcissists move on instantly—new relationships, social media bragging, and no remorse.
Equality Now - Human Rights Issues
https://equalitynow.org/news_and_insights/weaponizing-defamation-lawsuits-against-survivors-violates-international-human-rights/
Key Takeaways:
1. Spot the Patterns: True victims show PTSD symptoms (anxiety, confusion); false victims appear detached, entitled, and hyper-articulate.
2. Trauma vs. Tactics: Survivors self-blame and grieve; narcissists weaponise victimhood to "win" at all costs.
3. Systemic Failure: Courts often mistake a survivor’s anger for instability while believing the narcissist’s charm.
4. Silence Isn’t Consent: Many victims don’t report abuse due to fear, trauma bonds, or shame—not because it didn’t happen.
5. Healing is Possible: Recovery starts with therapy, community, and the realisation that you were never the problem.
Support the Mission: Help raise awareness of hidden abuse—share this episode, grab a copy of my book, or donate to support survivors.
💛 #justiceforsurvivors
Buy My Book
What Type Of Man? The updated 2024 Version.
Amazon US : https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B1RVQQDH
If you live in the UK https://amzn.to/3NBlQbx
Support LifeChangePlans
https://donorbox.org/support-life
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.