Things get real as Ben visits the final four in their hometowns. Amanda introduces her two girls to the first man she's dated since their dad. Lauren takes Ben to a whisk(e)y "liberry", and he kinda loves it. He and Caila play house, but in a plastic kinda way. JoJo brings the unexpected drama with a cast of many colorful men in her life in Dallas. It's a tearful end of the episode as Ben settles on the final three.

It's an unofficial early hometown as the ladies accompany Ben back to see his old haunts in charming Warsaw, Indiana. We see more of just how much Ben can't let high school go and find out which contestant has clearly always wanted to work at the McDonald's drive through. It's several rounds of tears as a couple of the ladies make their exit. And then there were four...

Special thanks to Nick Viall for the fabulous intro to this week's episode. We were lucky enough to chat briefly with Nick at "The Biggest Group Date" charity event and he was quite the gentleman.

We spent this Valentine's Day with some of our favorite former Bachelor contestants at The Biggest Group Date Ever, hosted by Ashley I here in NYC. We had some lovely conversations with the guys (and our Badlands-surviving hostess-with-the-mostess) and are here to report back on all of the evening's events. We also talk a little about Janner's wedding on a special ABC titled "The Bachelor at 20: A Celebration of Love". Special thanks to JJ Lane for our spicy intro (and our new explicit warning).

It's a rocky transition when the group goes from Mexico City to the mostly-not-sunny Bahamas. This week it's paddling pigs, everyone is in love with Ben, and one pair of eyebrows breaks out the burn book in a last ditch effort to win a rose.

It's unclaimed weaves on the nightstand, too many cooks en la cocina, and an unexpected exit as the ladies head south of the border.

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It's shattered champagne flutes for one contestant. The ladies compete in a talent contest, with many proclaiming they have no talents. Boho Bride Becca helps Pastor Ben for a day, and a surprise "twin-on-one" leaves one twin behind in Sin City.

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It's stripes versus stars as the contestants compete in a soccer match for the trophy of Ben's heart, two ladies get high flying one-on-one dates with our Bachelor, and one of our favorites follows her tattoo's advice and makes her way out of the Bachelor Mansion.

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The contestants compete in school-based high school games to be Ben Higgins' "Homecoming Queen", we see our first one-on-one-date, and the ladies go to a Doctor of Love to see if their scents make them a love match for Ben.

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Check out our first episode dissecting Bachelor 20's season premiere.

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