Win or learn are two positions that are mutually exclusive. OK, an exaggeration you can win, and you can learn at the same time, but in most instances, the need to win obfuscates the learning. In a room full of martial artists – fledgling ones the idea was put to the test until a Retired United States Marine intervened and made the evening’s events sooth out like warm butter on hot corn.  In the, We’re All In This Together section. The clarity that comes from having your priority’s in order – The love and the blood.