In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Dr. Kim sits down with Jimmy Rollins to unpack the real-life highs and lows of marriage. They dive into why communication, forgiveness, and a strong support system are so crucial—and how those things have played out in their own lives. From the power of simple daily appreciations to creating a safe space for open conversations, Jimmy and Dr. Kim get real about what it takes to build (and rebuild) a strong relationship. They also reflect on how easy it is to chase success in the wrong places—and how to shift the focus back to what matters most. Whether you're in a great season or struggling to find your footing, this episode is full of practical wisdom and encouragement to help you grow and heal in your marriage.

Episode Takeaways:

• Every marriage is hard and requires effort.

• Forgiveness is a decision, while reconciliation is a process.

• Daily appreciation can reignite connection in marriage.

• Creating a safe space is essential for open communication.

• Winning at the wrong things can harm your marriage.

• Community support is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships.

• It's important to examine your own behavior in marriage.

• Practical steps can lead to significant changes in relationships.

• Couples should seek resources and mentorship for guidance.

• The goal in marriage is to think together, not alike.

 

Questions to Discuss: 

• Are there areas of your marriage you are trying to ignore?

• Are there areas you are trying to change your spouse?

• How would you rate the community you have to support your marriage?

• What one thing can you say “no” to today, so that you have more margin to say “yes”  in your marriage. 

 

Quotes:

"Forgiveness is a decision."

"Community is what keeps us sober."

"You're not in it by yourself."

"Every marriage is hard."

"The goal is not to think alike."

"The best days are ahead of us."

 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  

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