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March 23, 2026Your Identity in ChristTRANSCRIPT:Hello, and happy day. This is Dr. MaryAnn Diorio, novelist and life coach, welcoming you to Winning with the Word. Today, we're going to be talking about a topic that is very dear to my heart, and it is your identity in Christ.Do you know that knowing and understanding and grasping your identity in Christ is foundational to living the abundant life that Jesus Christ died to give you? Yes, He died and rose from the dead so that you might have life and life more abundantly. Isn't that what He said in John 10, verse 10? "I have come to give you life, and life more abundantly?"But if you look around, most Christians are not living the abundant life. They are living defeated lives, lives of anxiety, worry, fear, sickness, all kinds of evil things from which the Lord Jesus delivered us. But the key is that we have to learn first who we are in Christ, and then we have to learn how to live above the circumstances of life. That is the way Jesus lived when He walked the earth. And Scripture says, as He is, so are we.
On this earth, we are like Jesus. We are to live as He lived, operate as He operated, according to the spirit and not to the flesh. But you see, my friend, most people do not live that way because they do not know who they are in Christ.Maybe you are one of them. I used to be one of them. But I got into the Word, and I began to see that I had believed some lies that were holding me back and keeping me from living the abundant life.So today we're going to talk about how to live that abundant life. And it starts, first of all, with knowing who we are in Christ. If you have your Bibles, I'm going to read a passage from Psalm 139, which is a Psalm that David wrote.Godʼs DesignAnd in that Psalm, there is a passage that starts at verse 13, and it goes to verse 18. And it is a foundational passage about who you are. I want you to read this and take it to heart. Listen carefully to what the Lord is speaking to you. As you read it, picture God speaking directly to you. I'm going to be reading from the New Living Translation."You made all the delicate inner parts of my body and knit them together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex. It is amazing to think about your workmanship. Your workmanship is marvelous and how well I know it. You were there while I was being formed in utter seclusion. You saw me before I was scheduled, or excuse me, before I was born, and you scheduled each day of my life before I began to breathe. Every day was recorded in your book. How precious it is, Lord, to realize that You are thinking about me constantly. I can't even count how many times a day your thoughts turn toward me. And when I wake in the morning, You are still thinking of me."Let that sink in. Let's go back and take this verse by verse."You made all the delicate inner parts of my body and knit them together in my mother's womb." Do you know that God was there making you inside your mother's womb? She was giving her body so He could create your physical body.But God was creating your spirit and your soul at the same time. He was putting together all those physical parts of your body in utter seclusion, it says, hidden from anyone else. It makes you look at a pregnant woman with a great deal of respect and honor and awe to think that inside of her, God is creating a human being into whom he breathed a spirit and a soul.And you were one of those human beings. God knit you together in your mother's womb. He made you wonderfully complex. You're a complicated person. I think you know that without my telling you. We are all complicated, aren't we?
There are so many parts of us. Just looking at the human body is amazing. My husband is a retired physician, and when we discuss the human body, it is fantastic.How God put it together. And for a physician who has studied the body and seen its inward parts, it's even more stunning and awesome. "Your workmanship is marvelous, and how well I know it. You were there while I was being formed in utter seclusion. You saw me before I was born." Do you know that God has always wanted to create you? You were in His mind before you were in your mother's body. You were always in His mind because God is eternal. There is no time with Him.
And the Word says here He scheduled each day of your life before you began to breathe. So you came with a ready-made calendar, right? God created and scheduled each day of your life. What does that mean? That means, as the Word says in another passage, that He ordained you to do good works every day of your life. He made you for a good purpose, to do good things.
And He had it planned that way way back then. He had already planned for you to have days filled with good things, and for you to do good things every day. "Every day was recorded in Your book." Do you know God has a book for you? Your mother may have a photograph album for you, or a scrapbook, but God has a book for you too. And in that book is written everything about His plans for you.
Every day of your life is recorded in that book. And God keeps a record for you. Don't you want good things to be recorded in that book?
I do. But like everyone else, I have some bad things recorded in that book, which I regret, which I did before I knew Jesus. But God is merciful and forgiving, and He wipes away all our sin.
How precious it is, Lord, to realize that You are thinking about me constantly. I can't even count how many days Your thoughts, how many times a day Your thoughts turn towards me. And when I waken in the morning, You are still thinking of me.
Do You realize that the Lord is thinking about you every moment of every day? You might say, well, how can He do that? Doesn't He have to think about other people?Well, that's the thing about God. He's everywhere and can do that. He's God, and He can do that.”
And He thinks about you all the time. He cares about you. In Zephaniah 3, verse 17, the Bible says that God delights over you. He sings over you. Imagine that. But maybe that's not the picture you have of God in your heart. You know, children get their image of God from their earthly fathers. And perhaps you had a very difficult situation with your earthly father. Perhaps you didn't know your earthly father. Perhaps He was absent from your life. Perhaps you were abused by your earthly father. But whatever the case may be, what really matters is that you now have a Heavenly Father who is a perfect Father.
Our human fathers were not perfect. That was hard for us to believe. I know it was hard for me the day I recognized that my parents were flawed.
But that's part of growing up, isn't it? But you have a Heavenly Father Who loves you deeply, Who cares about every detail of your life, and Who is waiting for you to come to him and talk with him every day. And I'm speaking to you, dear fellow believers, so many times we become so busy that we forget God, and yet He's waiting there, longing to hear our voices, longing to talk with us.
So part of our identity in Christ is to recognize that if we are born again, we are now righteous. What does that mean? It means we are in right standing with God. It means that He no longer counts our sin against us, because we are in Christ, and Jesus paid the price for our sins. But if you pay attention to what Christians say, as I like to do, so many of them do not understand this concept. They walk around saying things like, well, I'm just a sinner saved by grace, or I'm a worm, or I am just inferior. I am not worthy. Those kinds of things applied before we were born again. But once we accept Jesus Christ, we become new creations.
The Bible tells us that if any man is in Christ, he is a new creation, a new creature. He is new on the inside. Old things have passed away. All things have become new. Therefore, perhaps I can explain it this way. When we were sinners before we were born again, we were plugged into sin and everything that goes with sin.
It's like putting a plug in the wall. When you put a plug in your outlet on the wall, electricity flows through and lights your lamp when you turn on the switch. So what comes out of that, into the plug and into your lamp is electricity.
Well, when we were plugged into the old nature, the sin nature, all that could flow into us was sin. You might say, well, why? Because of the sin of our first parents, Adam and Eve.
You know, before I got saved, I used to get angry at Adam and Eve, and I used to tell God, why do I have to pay the price for what they did? I don't even know them. And now I laugh at it, and I'm sure the Lord laughed at that time.
But you see, this is what happened. Adam and Eve were created perfect, and they lived in a perfect environment. But God gave them a command not to eat of the fruit of a certain tree, and that tree was called the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. God did not want them to experience evil. He wanted them to eat of the Tree of Life, and they would experience only life. That was God's original plan for them.
But He gave them a free will, and Satan came along, and he posed the question to Eve that he is still posing today to people everywhere. And that question is, did God really say? What did Satan do?
He planted a seed of doubt in Eve's ear and in her heart. And she chose to believe what Satan said over what God said. Big mistake. And Adam did the same thing. And he could have stopped her, but he didn't. He put her above God, which is something a husband should never do.
______ure, a nature from which life had departed. In other words, they pulled the plug out of life, and they plugged themselves into sin. God put them out of the garden. It was a great act of mercy. Why? Because if they had remained un-eaten of the Tree of Life, they would have lived forever in a corrupted nature.
There would have been no hope of salvation for them