Wisdom-Trek / Creating a Legacy
Welcome to Day 143 of our Wisdom-Trek, and thank you for joining me.
This is Guthrie Chamberlain, Your Guide to Wisdom.
Life is Shaped by the Language We Use
Thank you for joining us for our 7 day a week, 7 minutes of wisdom podcast. This is Day 143 of our Trek. Yesterday we explored the wisdom nuggets of being thankful and giving the best gifts. Today we will explore the subtlety of language, or in other words, being careful of the words that we use when we speak. If you miss any days of our Wisdom-Trek, please go to Wisdom-Trek.com or subscribe at iTunes or Spreaker to get caught up. If you have any of your own observations, comments, or questions as we explore these nuggets of wisdom, please share them on the comment section of our daily journal pages.
We are recording our podcast from our studio at Home2 in Charlotte, North Carolina. We are headlong into our workweek with much to do before returning to Marietta on Friday in preparation for a family gathering to celebrate my dad’s 85th birthday on Sunday. We will be in Marietta for about a week and then will head south to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, as Paula and I are going on a business cruise the first week of November. I will need to create and record our daily Wisdom-Trek episodes ahead of time since I won’t have the opportunity to do so while on the cruise, so I have a challenging few days ahead of me.
Let’s continue on our Trek for wisdom. Today we will discuss how what we say and how we say it can have a major impact on our lives. Our time of discovery for today will focus on:
The Subtlety Of Language
I have found that sometimes the subtle difference in our attitude, which of course makes a major difference in our future, can be as simple as the language we use. The difference is even in how you talk to yourself or others. Consciously making a decision to quit saying what you don't want and to start saying what you do want. In some aspects, I call that faith or confidence – believing the best, hoping for the best, and moving toward the best.
A few examples could be instead of saying "What if somebody doesn't respond to me?" start saying, "What if they do respond?"
Instead of saying "What if someone says no?" say, "What if they say yes?" Instead of "What if they start and quit?" say, "What if they start and stay?" Or instead of "What if it doesn't work out?" you say, "What if it does work out?" And the list goes on and on.
I found that when you start thinking and saying what you really want, then your mind automatically shifts and pulls you in that direction. And, sometimes it can be that simple, just a little twist in vocabulary that illustrates your attitude and philosophy.
Our language can also affect how others perform and behave around us. As an example, a teenager says to a parent, "I need $50." And if the parent learns to say, "No comprende. That kind of language doesn't work here. We have the money to give, but that's not how you get $50," then he teaches the teenager to ask, "How can I earn $50?"
That is the magic of words. There is money available here. There is money for everybody, but you just have to learn the magic words to get them. If you just learn the philosophy of asking “How can I earn $50?” you can get everything you’d possibly want.
You can't go to the soil and say, "Give me a harvest." You know the soil smiles and says, "Who is this clown that brings me his need and brings me no seed?" Instead if you said to the soil, "I've got this seed and if I planted it, would you work while I sleep?" Then the soil says, "No problem. Give me the seed. Go to sleep, and I'll be working while you're sleeping."
If you just understand these simple principles, teaching them to a teenager (or adult) is sometim...