This week Marni welcomes Guy Shahar into the Den. Guy is the co-founder and lead facilitator of the Tantra Institute and the originator of Tantra Speed Date. He is an advanced certified Tantra educator, writer, and entrepreneur. With decades of experience, he teaches people how to become better lovers and how to heal the rift between masculine and feminine energies. 

 

Key takeaways from this episode: 

• Surrender into your feminine
• Form more intimate connections 
• Allow a man to make mistakes
• How to have fulfilling dating experiences

 

Tantra Speed Dating [2:55]

If you cringe when you think of speed dating, Tantra Speed Dating may be just what you are looking for. Guy explains how Tantra Speed Dating can offer deeper connections between a man and a woman while eliminating the preconceived ideas and judgment normally present when dating. 

Dating should be a shared spiritual experience, Guy says. It is designed to help people healthily relate to each other from the beginning of a relationship.

What we think we want may not be in alignment with what we are attracted to. 

Asking high-quality questions such as how you feel about yourself in the presence of a particular man is key. Could you feel safe with him if you surrendered into your feminine?

 

Dropping into Feminine [18:57]

In modern times, women have been taught to be more masculine, maybe too much so. They often feel they have to take care of everything themselves and can’t completely relax or surrender. Guy says when it comes to relationships people can be in different roles. Men want to serve women and understand how to make a woman happy but the woman has to be open to receiving. 

The more a woman surrenders into her feminine the more it energetically encourages a man to step up into his masculine because we naturally polarize each other.

On a date, if a woman shows up in her masculine a man might have to alpha compete to see who will be in the masculine or it can polarize him into his feminine.  If you want a man in his masculine it being in your masculine will sabotage your efforts.

 

• Allow a man a few mistakes while he gets to know you.
• Encourage a man to be in his masculine role.
• Develop a relationship with your body.
• Give a man a mission, then reward him for carrying it out.
• Stop believing the cultural rhetoric about men

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