April 22, 2022

With Kute Blackson: How to Keep Going When You Keep Striking Out at Finding Love

48 minutes

Marni welcomes inspirational speaker, author, and esteemed member of the transformational leadership council, Kute Blackson, into the studio to discuss his latest book, The Magic of Surrender. Kute shares the transformational opportunity that appeared when his mother was diagnosed with a fatal illness and how his book sprung from his soul and onto the page.

Key takeaways from this episode:

Myths and misconceptions about surrender
Moving into alignment with the universe
Start telling yourself the truth about what you want
Overcome past conditioning about what you need from life

The Magic of Surrender [2:51]

In our culture today there is a common misconception about what surrender truly means. It often means giving up and had negative connotations. A myth is that when you surrender you get less but Kuke says it's the opposite. Surrender is the most powerful thing you can do. Surrender is the key to manifesting your wildest dreams.

To surrender is when we stop trying to force and manipulate life to fit into our limited idea of how we think life should be. Surrendering opens ourselves to the life that seeks to organically happen from our soul.

Release and let go of what is no longer authentic or aligned with you.

The Process of Surrendering [13:27]

Human beings lie to themselves to keep themselves safe. We stay in relationships we know are not right. We stay in jobs, friendships, and circumstances that we know compromise our integrity but they stay due to security.

A simple and practical place to begin surrendering is by telling the truth to ourselves about who we are, what we feel, and what we want. Kute says if we just start with the truth we will set ourselves free. Issues in our lives will start to dissolve as we live in our truth.

Ask yourself what you want more than anything else, what you are pretending you don’t know, and what is lying to yourself costing you.

Myths and Misconceptions about Surrender [23:11]

To overcome past programming and conditioning and to live in action without attachment, we need to ask ourselves what the universe, the divine, or our souls wish to express through us. And, when we align ourselves with the answer, our truth, then we begin moving into action without attachments and in flow.

Our motivation is aligned with our soul. That is what moves us forward. And, when we take action that is aligned with our soul we feel a level of peace. The universe gives us proof that we can trust life.

Work in alignment with your truth and listen to life’s feedback.

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