With Love, Xavi

We address the mindset that everyone’s sexual preference can be adjusted with a method of persuasion.

-Yes he may be straight, respect that.
-Crossing the boundaries with someone who is figuring out their sexuality could be more frustrating than pleasing.
-We all love a straight acting masculine dude, but don’t mix that with a heterosexual.
-The idea of us trying to “turn” heterosexual men gay causes the same irritation that we get when women try to “turn” us straight.
-Let’s play a game of “Leave His Ass Alone” (a series of red flags when dealing with the trade).

We tackle the complex topic of dating in the gay/bisexual scene.

-Are you really there to date? Or are you there for free dinner and some dick smh?

-What are some challenges that men who sleep with men face? Those who sleep with women
and men?

-How high are our standards? Are we a McDouble looking for a Big Mac?

-When it comes to dinner dates, what are the do’s and don’ts? Do you “prepare” yourself for a
dinner date?

-Have you ever shown up on a date without your own money?

-My worst date was….

We address the millennials and the ideology that fame only comes from reality television.

Mona Scott Young and Andy Cohen make bank from reality television, you don’t.

If you were to get into a real drink throwing brawl, there may not be any security to break you up, nor can we send you off into a commercial break.

This generation is trying to figure out how to get rich quick, stay popular on the gram and photoshop their pictures….goals?

The Kardashians get paid to do absolutely nothing… so why are you at home doing absolutely nothing and NOT getting paid? Winning?

We live in a generation where we are being encouraged to embrace ourselves and be “unique”, but when you turn on the TV all of your favorite characters are the same person...

We explore the complications of dating and hooking up on apps. We explore the complications of dating and hooking up on apps. 

⦁ Be honest, are you there to meet the love of your life, or to hook up?⦁ Has an app hook up ever turned into something more than just a hookup?

⦁ Do you overly masculinize yourself to appeal to others online?⦁ Bitter profiles…like why are you so damn angry?

⦁ In a relationship on an app, “just for conversation” or is that cheating too?

We explore the pros and the cons of sexting with the millennials.

• Does sexting stimulate you?
• Sexting is a form of safe sex, but is it boring?
• Does sexting usually lead to phone sex?
• Videos and Pictures included, how often do you sext?
• If you sext someone consistently, are you guys “sext-buddies”?
• Is sexting considered cheating in a relationship?

The debut of With Love, Xavi!

Let’s explore the topic of nude pictures and answer the following:
Have you ever sent a nude picture?
Have you ever sent a nude picture to the wrong person?
When is the appropriate time to do so?
Do you include your face in the pictures?
To Photoshop or not to Photoshop, that is the question.
Have you ever been “catfished” or used as a “catfish”?
Cliché pictures (i.e. ass on the sink, remote control dick comparisons)