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  • How to Find Balance in Faith, Fitness, Business, & Dating

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    How to Find Peace in Faith, Fitness, Business & Relationships | It’s Not About Balance…

    Most people are chasing balance—but what if that’s the wrong goal?

    In today’s full episode of This Feels Holy, I unpack the truth about what it really means to “balance” your relationship with God, your health, your purpose-driven work, and your dating life or marriage. Spoiler: it's not about balancing at all—it's about spiritual alignment and rhythm.

    I share my personal journey of going from burnout and frustration to peace and fulfillment, how starting my day with God changed everything, and why honoring the season you’re in is the key to keeping your joy, your energy, and your relationships alive.

    This is for the woman (or man!) trying to grow spiritually, stay consistent with fitness, build a meaningful business or career, and make space for love. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by trying to “do it all”—this episode will remind you that with God at the center, peace is possible.

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    28 min
  • What Happens When Your Ignore God's Instructions?

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    Many people want to hear from God—until He asks them to do something that doesn’t align with their plans.

    In today’s episode of This Feels Holy, I share what really happens when we ignore God’s calling. Using stories from the Bible like King Saul and Pharaoh, we’ll explore how disobedience doesn’t just delay your destiny—it detours it. From personal experiences of resistance to spiritual redirection, I walk you through the real cost of saying “no” to God.

    We’ll talk about:

    ✨How ignoring God's instructions leads to spiritual misalignment
    ✨The signs you're out of alignment
    ✨The difference between loving God and obeying God
    ✨Why obedience is better than sacrifice
    ✨How to repent and return to your calling—even if you feel disqualified
    ✨And a few raw, personal stories of what happened when I disobeyed... and when I finally listened

    If you’ve ever struggled to surrender to God’s voice, this episode is for you.

    🙌 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who’s been resisting God's call on their life.

    ⏳ Video Chapters:
    00:00 - Ignoring God Doesn’t Work Out
    01:10 - Story of King Saul’s Disobedience
    02:00 - Everyone Wants God’s Voice… Until It’s Inconvenient
    03:20 - My Year of Disobedience & Pain
    06:00 - God Sends Gentle Nudges Before the Shake
    07:45 - God Knows the Ending, But Still Gives You the Choice
    09:00 - Fear, Comfort, and Pride Block Obedience
    10:00 - Obedience Is Greater Than Sacrifice
    11:30 - God’s Love Doesn’t Mean He’ll Trust You
    13:00 - Signs You’re Out of Alignment
    17:00 - Why You Feel Spiritually Dry
    18:45 - God Isn’t Abandoning You—You’re Out of Alignment
    20:00 - How to Repent and Return to God
    21:30 - You Are Never Too Far Gone
    23:00 - My Story: Resisting God in a Toxic Relationship
    24:00 - Obeying God Isn’t About Him Needing You—It’s About Him Loving You

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    26 min
  • Finding Your Spiritual Gifts & Divine Assignment from God

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    Your Gift Isn’t Random—It’s a Divine Assignment

    In this episode of This Feels Holy, I open up about my journey of discovering and finally accepting my spiritual gifts. For years, I chased businesses, roles, and goals that weren’t in alignment with what God had placed in me—and I paid the price in frustration, burnout, and confusion.

    If you've ever asked: "What are my spiritual gifts?" or "How do I know if I'm in alignment with God's purpose for me?" — this episode is for you.

    I’ll walk you through the difference between spiritual gifts and fruits of the Spirit, how to recognize what comes naturally to you (and blesses others), and how to tell when you’re walking in alignment vs. out of it. You’ll also learn how to practically explore your purpose without fear of “wasted time.”

    This is your reminder: You don’t bless anyone by playing small. You were given a gift to give it away.

    🎧 This is the full episode. For more, subscribe and share with a friend who’s on their own purpose journey.

    ⏱ Chapters:
    00:00 – The Danger of Playing Small
    02:00 – Why I Spent Years Running from My Calling
    03:45 – What Are Spiritual Gifts (vs. Talents)?
    05:10 – Full List of Biblical Spiritual Gifts
    06:30 – My Personal Gifts & How I Recognized Them
    08:30 – How to Begin Discovering Your Gifts
    10:00 – What You’re Naturally Good At Isn’t Random
    12:00 – What Are the Fruits of the Spirit & Why They Matter
    13:30 – Signs You’re Out of Alignment
    16:00 – The Trap of Copying Others & Losing Yourself
    17:30 – Realignment: How God Redirected My Life
    19:00 – Stewarding the Gift God Gave You
    21:00 – Exploration Is Part of Obedience
    23:00 – No Time Is Ever Wasted With God
    24:00 – Final Encouragement: Your Gift Is Someone’s Answered Prayer


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    May your heart stay soft and your spirit stay strong. 

    🎥 See you next week!
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    27 min
  • My First Ever Bible Study Went Horribly Wrong - I Shared My Secret Sin

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    This wasn’t just a Bible study gone wrong—it was a divine setup.

    In this vulnerable episode, I open up about one of the most embarrassing and shame-filled moments of my life: the first Bible study I ever led. I overshared. I spiraled. Women left the Zoom call. I felt unqualified, dirty, and disqualified from leadership. But what God revealed to me after was nothing short of life-changing.

    He used my mistake to deliver me from secret sin and to teach me the power of bringing truth into the light. If you've ever battled shame, secrecy, or sin you’ve hidden in the dark—this episode is for you. You're not alone. And your mess might be the very place your ministry begins.

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    ⏱️ VIDEO CHAPTERS:
    0:00 – The Bible Study That Broke Me
    1:58 – Why I Felt Called to Lead (Before I Was Ready)
    4:56 – What Is the Bible Stack Process?
    8:45 – Oversharing the Wrong Stack…
    11:50 – The Shame, The Exit, The Silence
    14:00 – The Secret I’d Never Shared
    17:10 – God Speaks at the Altar
    20:00 – A Direct Word from Luke 17
    24:15 – “It Breaks My Heart” — A Revelation About Sin
    27:02 – Coming Clean with My Husband
    30:48 – Delivered & Free from Porn
    32:35 – What Happens When You Tell the Truth
    34:30 – Why I Thank God for the Breakdown
    35:50 – My Rebrand, My Ministry, My Mission
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    Thanks for watching! 

    May your heart stay soft and your spirit stay strong. 

    🎥 See you next week!
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    37 min
  • The Truth About Submission, Service, and Spiritual Leadership in A Christian Marriage

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    What does it really mean to *outserve* your partner? In this deeply personal and honest episode, my husband Dylan and I talk about what it means to have a **servant heart** in a God-centered relationship—especially when life gets messy. From financial pressure to emotional needs, we share how service, leadership, and submission have transformed our marriage.

    We’re not experts—we’re living it, learning it, and sharing the real and raw moments that help us grow closer to each other and to God. This one is for every couple who’s navigating love, faith, and selflessness in today’s world.

    🙌 If this moved you, share it with someone you love.

    📍 CHAPTERS

    00:00 – The True Test of Service in Hard Times
    03:00 – Why My Husband's Leadership Changed Everything
    06:00 – What Real Servant-Hearted Love Feels Like
    11:00 – Leading by Example vs. Leading by Force
    16:00 – How to Outserve Without Resentment
    21:00 – From Spiteful to Sacred: My Shift in Service
    26:00 – Gender Roles, Love Languages, and Emotional Needs
    33:00 – Fairness Is a Lie: Building a Love That Lasts
    39:00 – What Inspires a Man to Lead Spiritually
    45:00 – How to Start Developing a Servant Heart
    52:00 – Final Words for Couples Ready to Grow
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    1 hr 5 min
  • My Husband is My Servant - & Why You Need to Serve Too

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    What does it really mean to have a servant heart?

    In today’s episode of This Feels Holy, I open up about something deeply personal: watching my husband quietly, consistently outserve me—and what that revealed about the power of a servant mindset. From cooking meals when I was emotionally low to giving massages after long workdays, his example reminded me what biblical service truly looks like.

    We dive into what it means to serve in marriage, how Christianity sets us apart from self-serving culture, and why Jesus' life as a servant is not just a story—it’s the model for how we’re meant to live.

    Whether you’re married, single, or healing, this episode will challenge, inspire, and soften you. Because service isn’t weakness—it’s worship. And the more we pour into others, the more God fills us in return.

    VIDEO CHAPTERS

    00:00 – World culture vs. kingdom culture on serving  
    02:00 – A personal story: how my husband is serving me  
    04:30 – Why a servant heart matters in marriage  
    07:00 – What Jesus teaches us about service  
    09:00 – The difference between Christian service and New Age self-focus  
    11:00 – How to recognize when your heart isn’t ready to serve  
    13:30 – What it looks like to heal and start serving again  
    16:00 – The “abundant river” metaphor + serving from overflow  
    18:30 – Submission, service, and spiritual maturity  
    21:00 – God’s design: we’re blessed to be a blessing  
    23:00 – Why serving helps you see people as God’s children  
    25:00 – The strength of a servant (and honoring my husband)  
    27:00 – Discernment: when service becomes self-neglect  
    29:00 – Practical ways to develop a servant mindset  
    32:00 – Final encouragement: serve from a full cup, not empty guilt

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    34 min
  • When The Enemy Attacks Your Mind - What to do on Hard Days

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    Yesterday, I broke down.
    The enemy came for my mind with lies—“You’re not worthy. You’re not called. None of this matters.”

    In today’s episode of This Feels Holy, I open up about what that spiral looked like for me—and how I got out of it.

    This episode is for anyone who’s felt overwhelmed, under spiritual attack, or like you’re losing the battle in your mind. I share biblically grounded tools that help me fight back: shifting your atmosphere, memorizing scripture, tracking God’s faithfulness, and giving yourself the grace Jesus already died to give.

    This walk with God isn’t always clean—but it’s always holy.

    If you’re in the battle, this episode is your reminder: you are not weak for spiraling. You are strong for coming back.

    ✨ Subscribe for more videos on walking with God in real life.

    VIDEO CHAPTERS:
    0:00 – The Enemy Attacked My Mind Yesterday
    1:30 – Real Talk: What Spiritual Warfare Looks Like
    3:15 – How Your Physical State Opens Doors to Attack
    5:25 – Pressure, Tiredness, and When You’re Most Vulnerable
    7:10 – The Dangers of Mary Jane, Alcohol, and Altered States
    9:00 – How the Enemy Twists God’s Promises in Your Mind
    11:00 – Shifting Your Atmosphere: Hobbies, Worship & Play
    13:45 – Why Scripture Memorization Is Spiritual Warfare
    16:00 – Keep a Record of God’s Miracles in Your Life
    18:30 – Prayer Isn’t About Words—It’s About Heart Posture
    20:05 – Give Yourself Grace: It’s Okay to Be Messy
    22:15 – The Truth: You’re Not Weak Because You Spiral
    24:00 – Final Encouragement and Closing Thoughts


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    May your heart stay soft and your spirit stay strong. 

    🎥 See you next week!
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    24 min
  • Whose voice are you hearing? Yours, God's, or the devil's?

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    Can you really tell the difference between God’s voice, your own thoughts, and the enemy’s deception?

    In today’s episode of This Feels Holy, we go deep. Danna unpacks a recent spiritual battle and breaks down how to discern the voice of God vs. the voice of self vs. the voice of the enemy. Backed by scripture and personal experience, this video will help you reflect, identify, and spiritually protect yourself in seasons of confusion, attack, or uncertainty.

    🛡️ God's voice convicts and brings clarity.
     🗣️ Your voice comforts but is often misguided.
     😈 The enemy’s voice manipulates with fear and shame.

    This is Day 8 of our 35-day challenge on How to Hear God’s Voice—a series dedicated to building real, personal relationship with God.

    🎯 Subscribe, like, and share this with someone who needs spiritual clarity today.

    Chapters:

    0:00 – Intro: 35-Day Challenge Going Strong
     1:58 – Under Spiritual Attack: A Real-Life Story
     4:02 – The Challenge of Hearing God Clearly
     6:04 – A Weekend Breakdown & Hidden Heart Issues
     9:17 – How the Enemy Twists Darkness in Weak Moments
     10:42 – Identifying the Voice of Self
    12:35 – What the Bible Says About Trusting Your Own Voice
    13:54 – Recognizing the Voice of the Enemy
    15:58 – “Did God Really Say That?” – Satan’s Oldest Trick
    17:12 – The Enemy Uses Shame, Doubt, and Fear
    20:06 – When Fasting Becomes Works Over Worship
    21:51 – The Lie of Chasing Peace Over the Prince of Peace
    23:14 – Scriptures to Spot the Enemy's Voice
    25:05 – What God's Voice Actually Sounds Like
    26:45 – Real Peace in the Middle of Chaos
    28:04 – The Role of the Holy Spirit in Discernment
    29:56 – Questions to Reflect and Test the Voice You Hear
    32:10 – Practical Discernment Framework: Fruit, Tone, and Peace
    33:18 – Final Truth: The Flesh Justifies, The Enemy Distorts, God Clarifies
    34:18 – Series Wrap-Up & Where to Follow for More

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    35 min
  • The Many Ways that God Speaks

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    Welcome back to This Feels Holy! We’re in a 5-week series called*How to Hear God’s Voice, and today we’re diving deep into something that changes everything—Learning Heaven’s Language.

    Have you ever felt like God was silent? Or wondered why you couldn’t hear Him clearly? This episode breaks down the most common (and uncommon) ways God speaks**: through scripture, whispers, dreams, confirmation, and people. But here’s the truth—if you’re not fluent in Heaven’s language, you’ll keep asking for answers you’ve already received.

    I also share raw stories from my own walk with God, from breast implant removals to dream interpretations and prophetic nudges—and how you can start discerning what’s truly from Him (and what’s not).

    🔔 Subscribe + share this episode if you’re ready to stop missing His voice and start recognizing it.

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    **⏱️ Chapters:**

    00:00 – Intro to the 5-week challenge

    01:12 – Learning Heaven’s language

    02:50 – Misinterpreting silence: Is God really quiet?

    04:38 – Expecting an audible voice

    05:50 – The multidimensional voice of God

    06:41 – Scripture: the grammar of Heaven

    08:20 – Why scripture is the foundation for discernment

    10:10 – God speaks in whispers and stillness

    12:03 – The power of silence and intimacy

    14:02 – Confirmation and repetition as God’s way of getting your attention

    16:11 – Example: God told me to remove my breast implants

    18:39 – Dreams and visions: when God speaks at night

    21:15 – Writing it down: how to interpret and honor the message

    23:21 – God’s messengers: when people plant seeds

    25:10 – The importance of discerning someone’s *fruit*

    27:12 – Use discernment with advice—even from Christians

    29:00 – Relationship deepens recognition: knowing His voice like a loved one

    30:21 – Imposters: the devil mimics God’s voice

    32:12 – Warning signs: ego vs surrender

    33:45 – Summary: God’s voice is not rare, it’s relational

    35:00 – Tune into Heaven’s frequency

    36:10 – God is already speaking—are you listening?

    37:00 – Join the challenge + closing encouragement
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    May your heart stay soft and your spirit stay strong. 

    🎥 See you next week!
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    18 min
  • I Turned The Blessing into My Curse

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    Sometimes the very blessing God gives us becomes the idol that blocks us from Him. In this vulnerable episode of This Feels Holy, I share how God convicted me to let go of TikTok Shop—even when it didn’t make financial sense. I explore the slippery slope from blessing to idol, the pull of self-resource over divine provision, and the painful beauty of obedience.

    This message is for anyone struggling to surrender control, let go of distractions, or discern the difference between God’s voice and your own desires. Let’s talk about conviction, identity, and how to avoid turning gifts into gods.

    🕊️ If this resonates with you, share it with a friend and subscribe. Let’s grow together.

    🎬 Chapters:

    00:00 – When Blessings Become Idols
     01:02 – Welcome to Miami + Backstory
     02:17 – The Spiritual Battle of Discernment
     03:10 – God Told Me to Leave TikTok Shop
     04:45 – Disobedience and Conviction Begin
     06:00 – I Was Slipping Back Into Old Habits
     07:05 – The Line Between Provision and Idol
     08:17 – God Speaks Through Isaiah 44
     10:10 – Realizing I Made TikTok My God
     11:23 – The Subtle Shift from Gift to Identity
     12:38 – Waiting for God’s Provision, Not My Hustle
     14:10 – When Gifting Becomes Your God
     16:02 – The Purpose of Discipleship Over Monetization
     17:59 – Recognizing and Using Your True Gifts
     20:12 – Stewardship: Multiply What God Gave You
     21:33 – Practical Check-In: Have You Made an Idol?
     23:15 – The Repentance Process I Use
     24:50 – The Blessing That Distracts You
     26:03 – Cut Off What Opens the Wrong Door
     27:00 – God Said TikTok Must Go
     28:03 – Provision Follows Obedience (Coming Soon)
     29:15 – You Don’t Need to Have It All Figured Out
     30:18 – I’m Learning to Wait on God
     31:08 – Final Reflections and Laughs



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    32 min

About With The Warters

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Welcome to With the Warters — where a real husband and wife sit down, tell the truth, and don't edit it out.

We're Dylan and Danna. Married. New parents. Christians figuring it out in real…